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they say wise men speak because they have something to say yeah they also say fools speak because they have to say
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something well here we are there you go yeah we forget that one well well relax
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so bro it's been a crazy holiday week and you know got all set up with
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the fam lots of gifts and fun times smiles all that stuff um but I I did see
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you know one of one of the most prestigious and like legendary baseball
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players in history yeah i I I have to even go as far as to say the greatest
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the greatest of all time like overall um achievement wise you know you can
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have batting titles you can have this that this man in my opinion is the best
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baseball player all around to ever play the game yeah i mean uh it's pretty hard
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to to say something against that right
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uh Ricky Henderson has passed away um I mean he is uh like you said legendary
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status and and everybody's seen clips of him but we're going to show a little clip that is a highlight reel of some
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sorts and kind of talk about some of the achievements that Ricky Henderson had in
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in his career playing baseball rickyerson
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Ricky Henderson won three American League uh Silver Slug Awards in 1981
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1985 and 1990 he also led the uh AL in um on base percentage and ops in 1990
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wow yeah i mean silver slugger that means the best
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slugger no he was a batter dude the most I know he were yeah he's the real deal i I mean he definitely uh not only stole
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bases but that's what he's mostly known for cuz his stolen bases achievements
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overshadowed his uh everything right like cuz like no one came close to him still to this day
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yeah i mean he he led Stolen Bases the American League 12 times from 1980 to
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1986 he led all those years and then 88 through 91 and then 98 as well man i
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mean and led 12 times he also he also he also led the American League in runs
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scored five times in 1981 1985 1986 1989 and 1990 wow so he scored the most runs
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that's like he's he's he's gotten over the base more than anyone wow that's incredible he So it also shows he led
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the L in bases on balls so walks in 82 83 89
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and 98 and was elected an allstar 10 times 10 time allstar that's absolutely
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insane wow um he won World Series titles in 1989 with the Oakland Athletics and
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in 1993 with the Toronto Blue Jays as well so he went all the way to the show a couple times he got himself a couple
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rings he went all the way yep yep uh he was the MVP uh of the American League only once in
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1990 but he was the American League Championship Series MVP in ' 89 and won
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the American League uh MVP award i mean that's pretty incredible yeah all these
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all these achievements uh for one for one player is absolutely incredible um
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he also uh won the gold glove award in 1981 the year we were born yeah the year
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we were born henderson what's crazy is he he won this award he was also elected
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into the Hall of Fame in 2009 but the crazy thing about this is
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we were born and he had already won the gold glove in professional baseball like by the time we were coming of age to be
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able to watch baseball and understand it he was still balling out well he was the best the greatest the best yeah i mean
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just look at I I know it doesn't say on our stats but I I think he also has the
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record for most leadoff home runs all time all time still still i don't know
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if that'll ever be beaten i mean um Oh wow what a catch incredible he's just
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an athlete man i mean
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yeah Ricky was still home he's still any base they knew
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1,200 damn
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there it is i am the greatest i'm telling you you knew he was the greatest
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you know this is a team sport right you know we got the Is it Kobe is it LeBron
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is it Michael hey it's Ricky [ __ ] wow yeah ricky is
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the greatest of all time there's nobody that's even in the discussion with Ricky Henderson is it's it's it's undisputable
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i mean we could have we could be all be fans of other of other players and their achievements but like when we're looking
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at them all uh in conjunction with each other hey yeah and he played for like 30 years or
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something crazy now probably not 30 but it felt like that he was he was still going in
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so many teams too it's not like he just was with Oakland A's which you remember
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a lot of people remember him he was with all kinds of teams the crazy thing is I've heard a whole bunch of cool stories
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about him like amongst people that I know and um I kind of like stopped watching
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baseball man when I was you know after the certain era when we had the Ricky
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Hendersons Jose Cano Mark Maguires the you know these certain certain type of
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players it was just larger than life characters you know um
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but I was like uh I think the date was like October 25th i was at my house
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october 25th 2024 this year not too long ago this year and
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I was there at my house and I was like talking to my neighbor my brother Aruro man great man uh I who of whom I admire
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a lot um I was just sitting there talking to him and uh down came uh down our street came
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a an Escalade Big Boy Escalade pulled up and um
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yeah it was Ricky Henderson it was Ricky Henderson ricky Henderson hopped out i got to meet Ricky um got to take a
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picture with him and if if you can John you can pull up that picture and um I got to actually watch a little bit of
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the World Series ricky huh i got to watch the World Series with Ricky Henderson what oh this last one where
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the Yankees were there you got to watch the World Series with of the Yankees
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with an ex Yankee it was It was really good it was really
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nice to meet him it was like very fulfilling for me like you know I bodyguarded all these people for many
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years and like there's only a few people that I have been impressed with okay uh
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but like star struck no but Ricky had that though ricky had that
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star power with me really so when I met him I was like damn it was emotional it was big it was like man so yeah wow so
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how was he i mean he passed away not too you know long after you met him how was
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it did you see that he was healthy did he seem uh happy like how was he he looked he looked cool you know i mean I
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I really don't know him as well um but again like I got to thank my brother Arturo for making that happen for me
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that was like fulfilling a lifetime dream for me to meet him so yeah um but
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yeah no he was cool man cool dude seemed like a regular type dude but you could
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see um like me I can see this uh he's a competitor a great competitor yeah and
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uh he could have been anything he could have been a fighter that's that's what I see like that's what I saw when I when I
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looked in his eyes when I met him i was like "Oh this dude this dude's a killer he could have been anything." Yeah yeah
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and um Yeah man like Yeah uh I would like I
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would like to extend the condolences our condolences from the gambler and the guardian to to the to the family to the
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wife and kids uh and and loved ones of Ricky Henderson
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for sure for sure yeah thanks Ricky thank you for keeping baseball exciting
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especially in our youth coming up seeing you steal those bases and you know just
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not just that but you know you were fairly outspoken and um and and were
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happy you know um and you know it sucked that you never played for the Giants
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because I had to see you doing all this right across the you know and lighten us up but you know
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uh hope you're doing well up there and you know thanks for everything you did for us and may your soul continue
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passing on to the next one yeah man wow what a way to start this episode man
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like I feel my heart a little bit you know the heartstrings
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yeah we're going to take a little bit of a different type of turn today uh with this episode that we're doing um
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we would like to do something for the grown and sexy here today the grown and sexy the grown and sexy cuz that's what
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we are damn it um though us and those uh who are like us who are out here um
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how is it uh adulting is this adulting is that correct i'm still learning this
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adulting thing i think that's what they call it yeah that is what they call it um you know when we uh
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sometimes we don't know things we need a little bit of help we need a little bit of assistance uh you know and when when
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when we're in relationships to get that can be difficult to get assistance uh in
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understanding to get um
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to get both people to be on a level of understanding of of um and and uh what
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is the word I'm looking for um alignment right alignment yeah uh you're
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you know it's a little difficult to achieve that uh when something's happening when emotions are risen yeah
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and you're going through something challenging times you know life and when things are good it's not uh it's not
12:17
common practice to go backwards to say hey let's revisit this oh yeah you just
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because there's always something else moving forward and you're happy yeah for sure uh so this article um it we we
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found it on the personal branding blog and we're we're going to do a few articles from there today this one's
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written by Isabelle Chase and it's titled if you want to connect with her heart start doing these eight unexpected
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things well one listen to her when it comes to
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connecting with someone on a deeper level it's not your words but your ability to listen that truly matters i
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would have to say that's true yeah yeah for sure um knowing that someone is
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listening to you uh you know it's either
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them being disruptive that's going to show you that they're not or possibly their response might indicate to you
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that they were not listening to you so I just listened to you and I I almost
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caught myself doing one of those things where I listen to say something back oh
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wow yeah that's big right there um you know sometimes that's a thing like uh
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when we're emotionally charged we might have something that we really feel so
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hard about that we're like "No this is going to be said like no matter what you say." Yeah so you're waiting to say it
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so they stop talking it's like boom you hit them with it before you allowed what
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they said to resonate with you to have it work right to proc process it yeah
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wow so listening is the key key thing there for sure i can see how that would
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be number one for sure yeah um so the article says in pursuit of understanding a woman's heart the first step is often
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one most overlooked simply listening you see we live in a world that constantly
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encourages us to speak our minds and assert ourselves yet when it comes to connecting with someone on a deeper
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level it's not your words but your ability to listen that truly matters
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listening isn't about merely staying quiet while she talks it's about truly
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understanding what she is saying acknowledging her feelings and her
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thoughts it's about showing genuine interest in her stories experiences fears and dreams and yes even those
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seemingly trivial daytoday details that she shares
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wow uh it says "When you listen to a woman with genuine interest and empathy
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you're sending her a powerful message you're telling her that her words matter her feelings are valid that she is seen
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and heard this simple yet unexpected act of listening can create a deep connection with her heart that words
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often fail to achieve but remember it has to be genuine listening with half an
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ear while scrolling through your phone won't cut it give her your undivided attention and watch the connection grow
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yeah very well written you know uh this article is I think like thinking uh like
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like a word that stood out to me was assertive you know like the world we live in is
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the difficulty that we have is removing it's like it's it's like about us these
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things you know a lot of times you know they have to do with us or they're about us or you know it has a direct impact on
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us some kind of way relationship wise these conversations yeah they do so it's like
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the difficulty in my opinion comes in uh it's not like any other topic of which
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you might be able to remove yourself from it to have a better scope and understanding of it
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so it's like it's still like as much as you may be trying
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uh to listen like I myself if I'm being honest I am an emotionally charged
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person so um yeah I I might have difficulty uh doing that and while I'm
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even doing it trying to do it I still feel that that weight you know yeah it's
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heavy i'm with that too um I definitely know the people I appreciate most in my
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life are the ones that are willing to listen me too 100% no doubt about it you
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know high value people to me too so number two okay um show vulnerability this is a
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huge one uh especially for men um on the journey of connecting with her heart I
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discovered the power of being vulnerable for a long time I believed that showing
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strength meant keeping my emotions in check not revealing any weaknesses
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but uh but that was until I met Sarah sarah was someone I deeply admired and
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wanted to connect with but no matter how hard I tried there was always a wall between us i was always the strong
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unflapable guy who seemed to have everything under control one day I decided to take a different approach i
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shared with her my fears about a project at work my insecurities about not being
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good enough and the pressure I felt to always be strong to my surprise instead
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of pushing her away it brought her closer she appreciated my honesty and
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began to open up about her own fears and insecurities before long we had connected on a level I hadn't previously
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thought possible showing vulnerability doesn't mean you're weak it means you're human it allows you to connect with her
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on a deeper level as it shows your authenticity and courage
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it's unexpected but incredibly effective wow dude that's an interesting uh
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insight there yeah so I've experienced this a lot myself uh I went through a
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intense leadership program that was about a year long and you know weeks at
18:38
a time we were you know stuck in with each other our team and then we put our
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our what we were going to do down on a on a piece of paper and it was called your letter of commitment and going
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through the process of leadership I the thing that I was lacking was
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vulnerability and I I was challenged by my team to open up essentially and
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through the process of leadership I did and now I lead with this and they kept
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on saying like it it's the strongest piece of you when you're vulnerable cuz
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we see someone that we see is strong but you're being vulnerable
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so that allows us to feel strong and ever since then I kind of tweaked
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how I was being and showed that piece of me and it's
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changed my life in a you know huge way i absolutely believe that um this this
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message is from me to men man listen
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um being vulnerable is important it you know uh Tony and I were born in
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1981 we were raised in like the 80s and the 90s and kind of like in a time where
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uh we were taught being tough was being a man yeah crying crying was not
20:04
optional not okay expressing yourself verbally uh about emotions was not okay
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so I entered into life with that mentality and you know it did not do me very well at all and I was very
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fortunate that I was able to come out of a lot of situations uh you know okay um
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but not everybody's going to be able to do that not everyone's going to have those blessings with that being said
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you can if you want to go live off-rid somewhere and be by yourself with nature that's cool i you know I'm not there's
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nothing wrong with that but if you are want to live a successful life in
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society um you can't get anywhere in life without people there's only so much you
20:48
can do by yourself right you can get good at a lot of things but you're not going to be able to do every job well
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that's just that's just how it is and if you know uh winning matters to you you need members of your team
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that can do their job Mhm to the best of their abilities that you know and um
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just the same goes in relationships yeah I I definitely agree with you and
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I'd say to the men out there too being vulnerable doesn't mean you're
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weak for me and there's many other people like me when someone shows vulnerability
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it actually means they're strong because they're willing to put themselves out there in a way that most people wouldn't
21:38
and that that shows that they have personal strength and dedication to themselves to be able to lift up and
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attack any challenge which is what you know the story that that Nathan just
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read but the first thing vulnerability does is it brings approachability
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yes you know it it makes it makes uh so me I'm a big big guy you know I'm 6'7 i'm
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not the hugest guy but I'm 6'7 and uh some may think that to be an imposing figure
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you want to be approachable you got to be approach that's that's key you got to
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be approachable and uh vulnerability is a big it's a big big part of that big
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way to make you approachable yeah yeah it it brings down the guard of others
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you guys moving on to number three here uh remember the small details
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so so this one's important well this we'll keep this one a little quick but small details is like Yeah you think of
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her birthday when it is right that's I don't consider that a small detail that's like a pretty big one that's a
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regular That's a regular thing yeah but like you know you're you remember her
23:31
Starbucks order when you go in and she goes "Hey I'm going to go to the bathroom." You're like "Oh I already ordered it." And then she realizes you
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knew her exact order like that's a small detail but that could be something that
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well in my case I think
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perception is the perception of the other person how they see it right your perception is your reality just because
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you see something some way doesn't mean that the other person does and
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some things that my lady uh wants to make sure are done every day
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or else it'll drive her crazy to me are not as much of a big deal
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and like when I think I'm doing a million things and I think I'm doing everything like I'm supposed to and I
24:19
neglect any of those things it causes an issue because in your head it wasn't that big
24:25
of a deal but for her this is this is vital it's vital wow so um it all
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depends on what we think about like as a man from a man's perspective
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we cannot look at what they see is and think it is big so maybe look at the
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small details is look at the small details yeah oh wow yeah and then you
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realize how important it is for them yeah the small details for us may have
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major significance with them yeah wow i I like that one i like that one it it's
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something that is is very simple to do if you actually are being present with
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her and and listen and are trying to
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understand her that'll make her feel appreciated yes um and that's literally
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the next one show appreciation um here we go on show appreciation
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so in the hustle and bustle of life we often take people for granted especially
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those closest to us showing appreciation and unexpected yet powerful way to
25:46
connect with her heart it's not about grand gestures or expensive gifts more
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often than not it's the small genuine expressions of gratitude that carry the most weight appreciate her for who she
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is and what she does whether it's her kindness her strength her cooking or
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even her quirky sense of humor i'd say especially her quirky sense of humor a
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simple thank you or I appreciate you goes a long way in making her feel
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valued and loved when she feels appreciated it strengthens the connection between you and opens up
26:24
deeper levels of intimacy so go ahead express your gratitude genuinely and frequently it might be
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unexpected but it's a surefire way to connect with her heart uh so every every
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so this is again something different right uh whatever it is right what this is really speaking to is like the love
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language like of the other person like what is that so like uh in my in my case
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uh like my lady's not big on words of affirmation she doesn't care about that yeah actions
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is what what speaks to her you know there's certain things that uh you know
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again we all have different love languages but that's just something to pay attention to um is how she will feel
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appreciated cuz something that you'll do for her that you would feel appreciated
27:16
isn't necessarily something that she would be like "Wow you appreciate me
27:21
right now." Correct and like let's just uh also be you know be honest with ourselves and take it light um all of
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these things are necessary but we are all works in progress this is not
27:34
something that will come overnight you know um we're building together and uh that's that's what it's about you know
27:41
um growing building together having the understanding like take it easy on each other guys you know if you're in it to
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win it you guys ain't going nowhere just be kind to each other yeah oh that's
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definitely one um the next one on the list here is number five it's support
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her dreams ah support her dreams um every person carries with them a set of
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dreams those deeply held aspirations that give purpose and meaning to life
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when you genuinely support her dreams you're connecting with a fundamental
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part of her being yeah oh that's for sure man uh this goes
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beyond just nodding in agreement with uh when she talks about her aspirations
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it's about actively encouraging her believing in her abilities and standing by her side even when the going gets
28:37
tough wow when she feels your genuine support for her dreams it creates a deep
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emotional connection she knows that you're not just there for the good times
28:48
but you're also willing to walk with her through the challenges that come with pursuing dreams
28:55
this unexpected level of commitment and support can touch her heart in a
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profound way creating a bond that is both powerful and enduring it sends a
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clear message i believe in you i'm here for you your dreams matter to me and
29:15
that my friend is a connection straight to her heart this writer is
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Yeah eloquent my goodness yeah that is eloquent so Nathan I believe in you i'm
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here for you and your dreams matter to me how did that feel that Thank you i
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think that felt I think that felt nice yeah i mean um it hearing that not
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probably not going to be the same from you as it would be from my lady but you know uh it was it was nice but knowing
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that to have somebody believe in you and being there for you and knowing that
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your dreams matter that's one of the biggest things i mean just for me and my relationship with my daughter that's
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what it's about full support yeah you know I like that yeah um and if you want
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your lady to support you in your dreams well you should know that she's got
30:15
dreams too and support her and hers yes the next one is be patient oh comes with
30:25
discipline when you rush things you risk missing out on the subtleties that make
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her unique yeah yeah and uh there's going to be
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some ladies watching this too and I would say you guys do the same thing
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yeah i I think it goes both ways all these I think everything that we're talking about we're talking about how to
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for a guy cuz we're two guys to get in a woman's heart properly we would like to say uh you know all of this for your
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partner whomever it may be yeah that's probably a better way to put it but it's not how the article that's not how it
31:05
was written but we would like to trans we would start to like uh translating it in that way because it makes it makes
31:11
sense it makes sense to me too cuz I'm I'm thinking of other relationships in my life you know I don't have uh a
31:18
girlfriend at this time um I want one what's up maybe this will source her
31:23
into my my world um let's go yeah but um
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on the same note I have great relationships with uh you know lots of women and
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I see that all these things that are there are stuff that I tried to do and some that I'm not that good at that now
31:43
that I'm seeing it I'm like "Oh well I get to be more supportive of their
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dreams and a little bit more patient you know and that would help me you know
31:54
with those relationships." Showing vulnerability for me is something that
31:59
um I'm getting better at but it's still not enough like uh you know I was raised
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basically by like a like a human wolf right like um
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so I'm I'm a I'm a late bloomer when it comes to some of these things a little bit of a slow learner you know uh and
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and also the different aspects of vulnerability you know it's so many different ways to be vulnerable and
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places that you can be vulnerable so that's another thing to look out for oh for sure man number seven is show
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kindness right and and that's simple but
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it you know you want to shoot some more of that be patient in there yeah we could go yeah um go go for it man all
32:49
right i've always been a go-getter someone who wants things to happen quickly
32:56
but when it came to connecting with her heart I learned the invaluable lesson of
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patience connecting on a deeper level isn't something that happens overnight
33:08
it's a journey filled with moments of joy pain discovery and growth it requires time and more importantly
33:15
patience when you rush things you risk missing
33:20
out on the subtleties that make her unique but when you're patient you allow
33:25
the relationship to grow organically you give her the space to open up at her
33:31
own pace okay wow yeah being patient shows
33:39
that you respect her as an individual and are willing to wait for a genuine
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connection to form this unexpected show of patience can truly touch her heart
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and create a connection that is both deep and lasting
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okay that makes a lot of sense you know when you rush things you risk missing out on the subtleties that make her
34:03
unique but also um I think taking your time
34:09
with someone like uh like me for example like some
34:15
people if they take their time with me that shows me that they care more good call and like there's more value in that
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yeah they're not trying to rush it yeah you're not something that they're just trying to blow through move through go
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to the next get it done yeah get you out the way so yeah I think that's a big
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deal all right man i just learned a lesson in
34:38
patience he said "Hey pull back let's go back to patience." That was for you
34:44
buddy that was for me patience is a very very big deal so um they say patience is
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a virtue you know and not all people are virtuous
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you know um if you have the ability to be patient a
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little bit work on being a little bit more and honing it to make it what it
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really is it's a great patience is a great thing it's a great thing to have patience
35:16
brings poise poise brings control
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you know so yeah yeah i like how you uh
35:28
really dug into patience you're definitely a patient person too sometimes uh patience
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I am I am considered to be an extremely patient person um but
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patience can also be to your detriment if you're not careful you know you have to know when to cut cut the cut bait you
35:50
know when to cut that when to cut the cord yeah you know separate yourself from things you know uh or else patience
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can lead you into a lot of lost time yeah for sure
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uh number seven is show kindness kindness is more than a virtue it's a
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bridge that connects hearts when you show kindness not just to her but to
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everyone around you it sends a clear message about the kind person you are
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you see acts of kindness no matter how small have an impact they show that
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you're considerate compassionate and value others when she sees you treating the waiter
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with respect helping an elderly person cross the street or even showing compassion to an animal it touches her
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heart it shows her that you have the capacity to love and to care for others this
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demonstration of kindness can be unexpected but incredibly attractive it creates a deep connection with her heart
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and shows her the kind of partner you can be so go ahead and let your kindness
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shine through it's one of the most beautiful ways to connect with her heart
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yeah that's a good one um yeah I uh I kind of drive my lady crazy with that
37:09
stuff oh really yeah bro you know me I'm like I'm like uh I'm a bubbly person
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like I I like hug strangers in Costco and Safeway like I'm one of those people that like I
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get into I get into heartfelt conversations with strangers at the drop of a hat randomly anytime all the time
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uh it's a big part of my purpose in life so I serve it up whenever I can it's
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like what is here here we go let's go it brings me joy and I know when I walk away from that person something else has
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been fulfilled in somebody else as well i love that yeah yeah yeah i think that's great but I
37:49
could also see how how Jana with how she is she's like "Come on man let's get
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moving man." Yeah she So she she's an introverted extrovert
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right uh really an introvert but uh she's a self-taught
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extrovert enough to do what she has to do to live life amongst humanoids you know exactly um and me I'm not i'm I'm
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out there yeah you're out there yeah I'm out there uh so this speaks on you right
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now number eight be genuine be genuine at the end of the day there's
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nothing more powerful than authenticity yep if you truly want to connect with
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her heart be genuine being genuine means being true to who
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you are it's about showing your real self not a
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version you think she might like it's about being honest with your feelings
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your thoughts and your strengths and yes even your flaws authenticity creates
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trust fosters intimacy and builds a connection that is real and profound
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when you're genuine she sees the real you not a facade this authenticity might
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be unexpected in a world where many people wear masks but it's the most beautiful gift you can
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give to her and yourself it's not just about connecting with her heart it's
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also about being true to yours and uh my dad
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uh something that he always said to me from childhood all the way up to now
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fortunately he's still with me to thine own self be true yeah
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so this means if you can't be true to yourself you cannot be true to anyone so
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upon entry into any type of relationship being genuine is the most important
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thing that you can do because you might not realize it
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you are setting expectations mhm with your behavior with how you
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conduct yourself with how you are you know portraying yourself to be this is
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what someone receives and then puts it in their brain and says "Hey this is what I think this person wants back i
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like this this is in alignment with who I am and what I believe." But if you are
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not being genuine and you have entered into this relationship in this way you have to carry this out forever and
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there's going to be a disconnect there there's going to be an impass all the time there's always going to be
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something that's there that needs to be resolved because it didn't start out
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true and you know a lot of times we have to be very careful with this
40:48
when we enter into relationships check your intentions at the door
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make sure that your intentions are whole when you're entering into a relationship
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alongside with this yeah and there's different stages of a relationship when
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you first meet somebody it seems like you know there's all this excitement right but then also
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it's the learning process of getting to know each other and who they genuinely
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are as people and they say that that takes a year to go through cuz then you
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start learning all these things as you go through and they the infatuation starts peeling off you know and and so
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if you could enter in and be genuinely yourself from the beginning
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then it makes it a lot easier for someone to actually love you to truly love you yeah to truly love you they
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fell in love with who you really are who you really are yeah yeah yeah that article was pretty incredible
41:56
i'm glad we were able to touch base on it um listen to her show vulnerability
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remember the small details show appreciation support her dreams be patient show
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kindness and be genuine are the keys the
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eight unexpected things that you do if you want to connect with her heart and
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again his heart her heart their heart whoever your partner is if this makes
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sense to you we would love you to I hope this helps somebody out there i hope
42:36
this uh helps somebody because when when I took a look at this stuff I was like man this is excellent information and
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there's probably some people out there that could use this there's a lot of people out there talking about uh what
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people are complaining about oh yeah and talking about uh
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this lady thinks this and this guy thinks that listen I'm going to be honest with you guys like that's all
43:02
fine that's for other people to do we would like to bring people together here we would like to help people live a more
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harmonious life and uh hopefully again that this is able to help somebody do
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that a little bit more yeah once again thank you to the personal branding blog and Isabelle Chase for writing that
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article thank you Miss Isabelle and this article is again from the personal branding blog uh but this one's
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written by Tina Fay yeah Miss Tina Fay um yeah Miss Tina Feay this this is fire
43:38
thank you for uh thank you for writing this i found this to be This is prolific this is great
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information this is Everyone needs this yeah I agree so this
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article is titled seven phrases to use when your partner needs reassurance and
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validation according to a relationship expert yeah we should have started
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this all by saying Anthony anthony and I
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we're no relationship experts yeah for real let's make this clear so yeah the
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information that we're that we're giving to you guys is from relationship experts yeah and you know we're we're
44:22
continuously in a stage of personal growth right self-improvement and self-improvement and you know Nate has a
44:28
relationship he's been going on for a long time and I I don't have one currently in my life but I I want one
44:36
and and so going through this stuff is a way for us to learn and a way for us to hopefully get our audience a totally
44:43
different perspective cuz we're up here talking about all these crazy things going on in the world and then we come
44:49
out and do something like this yeah we we trying to show you guys like Yeah we got a little bit of versatility
44:54
versatility um and uh yeah this is necessary we all need this yeah so seven
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phrases to use when your partner needs reassurance and validation according to
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a relationship expert navigating the world of emotions and
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communication in a relationship is no easy feat you often find yourself trying
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to reassure your partner validate their feelings and make them feel loved
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but finding the right words can be a challenge that's where I come in as a relationship
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expert I've spent years studying the best ways to communicate effectively in
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relationships it's not about just saying the right things but also about how you
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say them in this article we'll explore seven powerful phrases you can use when
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your partner needs reassurance and validation these are not just random phrases they're carefully chosen
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statements that have been proven to work in many different scenarios
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all right so the first one I hear you
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in the realm of relationships nothing quite matches the power of validation when your partner is feeling insecure or
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uncertain your ability to validate their feelings can make all the difference one
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key phrase to use in such a situation is "I hear you." It's simple yet incredibly
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effective this phrase signifies your willingness to listen and understand their side of the story tells your
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partner that you're not just physically present but also mentally and emotionally invested in what they are
46:41
going through i hear you puts their concerns at the forefront making them feel seen and
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heard this can provide a sense of relief and comfort even in the midst of
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difficult circumstances but remember saying "I hear you," is just the first
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step you have to follow it up by actually listening understanding and
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responding appropriately to their concerns because as important as it is to say the right things actions always
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speak louder than words m
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two you're not wrong at first glance this phrase might seem a bit counterintuitive
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after all aren't we supposed to reassure our partners by telling them they're right
47:31
well not necessarily the phrase "You're not wrong," can often be more effective
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in providing reassurance and validation it's a subtle shift in language that
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does two things first it validates their feelings or perspectives without necessarily agreeing with them
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this is particularly useful when you might have a differing opinion but you
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still want to acknowledge their feelings second it avoids turning the
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conversation into a debate about who's right and who's wrong
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it moves the focus away from winning an argument and towards understanding each other's viewpoints
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so the next time you find yourself in a tricky situation with your partner try slipping a you're not wrong you might be
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surprised at how well it works i I uh I I can cosign that oh yeah that's one of my tactics i I've used that before i say
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I've used it you say it's one of your tactics but it's really we're we're trying to make sure we have a good
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connection though it actually uh what it does is um
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it it helps to back that guard off a little bit yeah when it says you're it
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moves the focus away from winning an argument even though they say like you're not saying you're you're right
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but you kind of are in a way so it's kind of like oh you're not saying I'm wrong so okay yeah so now I'll I'll let
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my guard down and be open up to hear what you're saying a little bit because you say I'm not wrong human psychology
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yeah I mean that's that's a good one you know um number three I value your
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perspective we all view the world through our own unique lenses and our partners are no
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exception when they share their feelings or opinions with us it's an invitation into their world
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a phrase I often recommend is "I value your perspective." It's a simple statement that goes a long way in making
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your partner feel validated and important by saying this you're not only acknowledging their thoughts and
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feelings but also showing respect for their individuality it's a subtle reminder that you see them
49:47
as an equal partner not just someone to agree or disagree with
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yeah keep in mind it's not just about saying the phrase it's about genuinely valuing their perspective even if you
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don't always agree it's about creating a safe place where both of you can share
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your thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or rejection four this is a
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really good one let's figure this out together when your partner is feeling low or
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facing a problem it's natural to want to jump in and solve it for them but sometimes what they really need is not a
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solution but a companion in their struggle i like that i I think I might
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be one of those people i uh Yeah that's cool um
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yeah sometimes people are uh
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just looking for a shoulder to lean on sometimes they're looking for a ear you know just sometimes they just want to
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get it out and somebody to go through it with them they just don't want to do it alone that's it
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um one phrase that encapsulates the this idea let's figure this out
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together instead of taking over you're offering your support and partnership
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this phrase sends a powerful message you're not alone and we're a team yep
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and the wise words of Helen Keller "Alone we can do so little but together
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we can do so much." This phrase aligns perfectly with that sentiment
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it's about showing your partner that no matter what happens you're there to face
51:33
it with them yeah that's big man uh it it definitely is showing how
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you don't want to go through a lot of this stuff by yourself and especially when you have a significant other that's
51:46
in your life you you're wanting to do it together and figuring it out together
51:51
means you're both going to work through this challenge at at the same time and in unison yeah
51:59
you can have the confidence in your relationship that that is solid right and that we're doing this together and
52:05
that you know the security in that is a big deal yeah I I think that that's
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the next one here I appreciate you yeah
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I mean this this was kind of in the last article that we did as well i appreciate you right in the hustle and bustle of
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life it's easy to take your partners for granted we often forget to express our appreciation for the little things they
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do it's why I appreciate you is such a powerful phrase it's a simple yet
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heartfelt expression of your gratitude and love phrase doesn't just validate
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their actions it validates their worth to you m it shows your partner that
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you've seen their efforts and they matter to you i
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mean wow i I think that that's that's just a a great thing we talked about in
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the last article as well it seems to be coming up right appreciation people want
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to feel appreciated just like I do or you do yeah I dig it
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um six you're capable
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in moments of doubt or insecurity your partner may need a boost of confidence
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and sometimes the best way to provide that is through a simple phrase you're capable this phrase is a powerful
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validation of their abilities and strengths it shows your belief in them
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which can be incredibly reassuring from personal experience I can tell you
54:24
this phrase has a profound impact i've seen it uplift my partner's spirits and
54:29
inspire them to tackle challenges head on and if you're enjoying these insights and want more relationship advice on
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your feed feel free to follow me on Facebook yeah uh who is this again miss
54:43
Tina Fay yeah this is Tina Fay follow Miss Tina Fay on Facebook yeah she's doing a good job here um yeah you're
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capable that is that is giving them confidence because a lot of people have
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uh a fear of not being good enough uh or inadequacy inadequacy fear of
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inadequacy so saying you're capable literally is the opposite of that it's
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it's boosting their confidence and people that feel that way they just good people if they even care enough to feel
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that way you're right about what you think about them and what they're doing
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they're just good people yeah that's true take it take it easy on them
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so the last one here number seven uh is I made a mistake
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this is the one uh might not be easy to say but it's incredibly important admitting when you're wrong is a
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critical part of any healthy relationship mhm the phrase "I made a mistake," is a raw honest and vulnerable
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it's an admission that you're not perfect and that you're willing to own up to your heirs this kind of honesty
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can be both validating and reassuring for your partner it shows them that you
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value the relationship more than your ego moreover it sets the stage for open
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communication and problem solving it paves the way for discussions about what
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went wrong and how to avoid such mistakes in the future remember nobody's
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perfect we all make mistakes what matters is how we handle them and admitting our faults is the first step
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towards resolution and growth
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yeah so this article you know seven phrases to help when your partner needs
56:37
reassurance and validation that last one was I made a mistake
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that that speaks to vulnerability you know totally that speaks to vulnerability totally you see how these
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both of these articles kind of have some of the same stuff you know when it comes
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to coincide with each other for sure yeah giving them reassurance and validation
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and then the first piece was about how to connect with the heart and so a lot
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of reassurance and validation comes from your heart 100% you know um so once
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again just to read through these do you want to read through these real quick uh sure uh one I hear you two you're not
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wrong three I value your perspective
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four let's figure this out together five I appreciate you six you're capable and
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seven I made a mistake wow so anybody who says these kind of
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phrases is definitely coming from an authentic genuine kind of perspective
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yeah it seems like they're ready to do the work that's what it sounds like to me
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um wow that that article was great i love how using these phrases can totally
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support in building strong relationships with the people I love yeah and thanks for uh sitting with us on this and
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having the patience to sit and listen through this stuff right here and um again if this is for you if if this is
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something that helps you and uh in your life and you know with your partner and
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your relationship um that's what it's for and yeah I'm glad that we would uh have any
58:31
contribution in that this next one that we got coming up is definitely not the same as this but you never know uh Luigi
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Manion might have had a similar kind of childhood before before we get into that Luigi Manion thing there's something I
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would like to say about Luigi Manion because we we covered uh that story on the last episode but there was something
58:54
that uh I meant to say that I did not say and I feel like it's very important
58:59
that it is said i feel like there's a really big disconnect between uh with humans right now and
59:07
when I say that there's a lot of talk of People
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People very easily talk about unaliving people nowadays they they do people very
59:19
easily talk about this and very easily celebrate the unaliving of people and if
59:25
you have a emotional attachment to a situation you know that's one thing but like to be
59:32
a fan of uh someone's soul leaving the planet
59:38
it's not not cool at all what this kid did
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whatever the reason
59:51
the act that was done was cowardice
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now the sentiment that he may have had in doing what he did some people may
1:00:04
agree with why the why quote unquote but in my
1:00:10
opinion there's never a reason why
1:00:15
to gun down someone that's kind of just doing their job one
1:00:22
and two even bigger for me
1:00:28
you don't shoot a man in the back yeah I knew you were going to say that there's no I don't care who you are
1:00:36
there's nothing admirable about that yeah
1:00:41
if you do something I was always a big fan of doing it you let the man see you
1:00:47
yeah that man deserved to see who his killer was who it was this that did this to him
1:00:55
so with that being said again those actions are not something I stand
1:01:00
by and here at this in this in this the gambler in the Guardian we do not Yeah
1:01:06
essentially what Nate's saying that I completely agree with is we're not okay
1:01:12
with we cannot celebrate this kill we can unalivvening right we cannot
1:01:17
celebrate this kid as a hero
1:01:22
because it brought light to something that a whole bunch of people don't like
1:01:28
and disagree with yeah now this all started
1:01:34
uh many years ago now maybe
1:01:39
12 15 years now when they started what was called the affordable care act
1:01:48
when this happened was created the global health
1:01:53
type organization like it is now like it is now and I know one person
1:02:01
i only know literally I know one person that read the Affordable Care Act and he
1:02:07
told me it took him two months and it was over 3,000 pages long
1:02:15
and if I'm not mistaken when it was brought before the I don't know it was the Senate or
1:02:20
whoever it was that had to pass it Congress I don't remember but they had given them so many hours to review it
1:02:27
yeah so nobody was able to read it so they pulled the jerk move and instituted this now I I am in agreement that
1:02:34
a healthc care is a human right and it should be accessible to everyone
1:02:43
but I don't think the I don't think that what they did is helping everyone and
1:02:50
it's it's kind of showing and uh it's it's getting to a a boiling point now yeah seems like
1:02:57
you know this Manion case is now becoming a bigger thing right it's going
1:03:03
to set precedent for sure there's some kind of press yeah and and at least
1:03:09
there hasn't been anybody else that has done anything like this so no copycaters
1:03:14
type thing like we talked about last week not that not that uh not not as yet no um so let me read this article that
1:03:23
that just came out and it essentially says Luigi Manion judge married to
1:03:30
former healthc care executive right so Luigi Manion's pre-trial judge is
1:03:37
married to former executive at Fizer according to a shocking report Magistrate Jud Judge Katherine Parker
1:03:45
who has handled Manion's pre-trial hearings is married to Brent Parker who
1:03:51
stopped working at Fizer in 2010 she also has hundreds of thousands in
1:03:57
stock according to reported reporting journalist Ken Clipperstein
1:04:04
the judge holds between 50 and 100,000 in Fizer including stock in other healthc care industry companies like
1:04:11
Abbott Laboratories Viatric and Crisper Therapeutics her husband still collects
1:04:18
a pension from his former employer parker also has holdings in Alphabet
1:04:24
Google Amazon Microsoft Tesla and Apple amongst others united is the uh indecip
1:04:33
indecipherable largest company in the US by market cap behind only Apple Google
1:04:43
Walmart manion's alleged manifesto read "The reality is these indecip indecipherable
1:04:53
have simply gotten too powerful and they continue to abuse our country for
1:04:59
immense profit because the American public has allowed them to get away with
1:05:04
it." That judge needs to be recused from the case well so let's let's just talk
1:05:10
this through a little bit so what I see is there's a conflict in interest she
1:05:15
owns these stocks her husband worked at Fizer
1:05:23
that essentially That's pharma yeah it's pharma so shearma essentially
1:05:29
potentially jaded based on well what happens affects her personally yeah she
1:05:36
she is she has too much of a of a personal interest in this case like just just based on her lifestyle like
1:05:42
literally like it's too much of a conflict in interest bro so let me ask you this Nathan
1:05:48
so how many judges do you think own pharma in their portfolio
1:05:54
cuz they invest in hedge funds they invest in Vanguard they invest in all
1:05:59
these so how many of them they going to have to do they going to have to do they going look they going to have to do
1:06:05
their job or else this is going to keep happening and the people are cuz guess what they did not make this announcement
1:06:11
the people did as usual the media no no no not regular media the people right
1:06:17
people like us is out here doing this research to find out stuff like this and it's going to keep happening unless they put the right people in place to do
1:06:24
their job the right way we going to keep having this problem this is the This is the age of information and we ain't playing out here right now yeah and so
1:06:30
what we're getting is a bunch of information related to you know the
1:06:35
judge that's you know making decisions on his case and you know I could
1:06:42
understand how people would say well how is this unbiased that this judge owns
1:06:48
those that stock and has My question is why would you why would you be willing
1:06:53
to take the chance okay so what what do they do they got to
1:06:58
they got to replace that judge so replace the judge put in a different judge do uh this different judge what's
1:07:04
a chance that in one of the mutual funds that they own they own the same stuff
1:07:09
hey we got we got to go through them we got to go through them i can't imagine that a judge
1:07:16
doesn't own some of this Like again don't know the truth to that but like again supposedly um
1:07:22
his lawyer and Diddy's lawyer are married or some like listen that's that
1:07:27
world they got these connections but this jud when it comes to judges right being uh
1:07:34
you know uh unbiased no no well you know judges are um appointed right
1:07:43
yeah so an appointed official they can just appoint another official you
1:07:49
understand like they're going to they're going to they going to know more about the judges the people that appointed
1:07:55
judges they know they know who they'll appoint like there's they know what they're doing bro these people are just
1:08:00
effing around bro trying to get their people in place so they can jerk this kid yeah I I definitely see some of that
1:08:07
going on that This is what man i say jerk this kid as if he didn't unal alive
1:08:12
somebody by shooting him in the back but I'm just saying like Yeah yeah i mean that he should he should be disciplined
1:08:18
oh I mean to the fullest extent you know um that's not okay and and from what it
1:08:25
sounds like he's okay with that yeah no he knew what he signed up for but like my only thing is the the um
1:08:34
the federal the federal the feds getting involved and now he has two case now he
1:08:39
has the federal case and he has the uh the local case too i don't know about this one man this is
1:08:46
weird i I'm I'm more apprehensive of the kid being in freaking federal custody
1:08:52
oh really yeah i'm more worried that he'll um uh Epstein himself
1:08:58
oh in the feds like where he's at right now like I saw a uh story the other
1:09:04
night these these they were outside of the jail these reporters and they were like they were like does Luigi Manion
1:09:10
have a TV no
1:09:17
you can hear all the dudes inside the jail yelling out answering their questions bro whoa yeah it was pretty it
1:09:22
was pretty wild like yeah they they mess with him in there they like free Luigi up in there they going ham for him oh
1:09:27
all the prisoners yeah they going ham for him but like once he gets in the feds like
1:09:32
good luck it's gonna be a different thing good luck different thing altogether i don't know i mean that
1:09:39
maybe maybe it's the same thing but bigger because it's not like the prisoners in in you know Fed lock up
1:09:48
haven't been a part of the same system or have family members that are a part of the same system and all the stuff
1:09:54
that's happened i feel like nobody's ever going to know the truth about what's really going on with this case i feel like it's not a cut and dry this
1:10:00
kid walked up and did this thing like something's definitely funky with this uh for sure the the the guy was on the
1:10:06
way to a shareholder meeting the majority shareholders of this company
1:10:11
are Vanguard State Street and Black Rockck and Black
1:10:18
Rockck the Evil Empire i'm just saying like I don't know man it don't smell
1:10:24
right y'all yeah uh this is definitely going to be a a story that continues
1:10:31
yeah we'll keep an eye on this one for you we'll have to keep an eye on this one cuz it's it's going to be followed
1:10:37
up there's going to be more and more you know um so it is it is officially winter
1:10:44
you know we're we're in the new year 2025 uh there's Oh happy new year guys hey
1:10:52
happy new year new year hey our bad yeah happy new year from us
1:10:58
at The Gambler in the Guardian for sure you know coming into this new year I I
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definitely have uh something that I want to do personally it's it's uh I'm I'm
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trying to snowboard 30 times this year right oh snap and and going on these on
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to the mountain you got to ride gondelas and chairlifts and all this stuff
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and then we saw this clip so let me show you this Nathan
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so you see this person getting put down on a rope
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they had to evacuate 100 people by rescue right by rope that is crazy yeah
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so the they'll show the guy in a minute here that he's going over like this
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shimmying shimmying all the way over to the next gondola and then he lowers down
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the next person
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it was in Colorado able to get
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that sucks
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dang 150 people stuck on this gondola and have to be evacuated in that way
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yeah no I'm so glad I'm would never be one of those people i mean that's just nuts right um and and so I've had to
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ride these gondilas right um I was up at Heavenly uh in Lake Tahoe i can't
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imagine myself sitting there and actually waiting for somebody to rescue me out of this like hell no bro i'm
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going to have to find a way up out of there brother yeah you think that and then you're 50 feet up and I ain't
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afraid of heights bro i'm just saying like I don't know i don't know when somebody's coming or not that's That's
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the way I think i'm thinking get up out of here i mean there's no way I'd even think about opening that door you sit
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there for an hour and you're like dude feel like the world's about to come to an end bro i mean if it comes to an end
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and you're up there you're kind of stuck oh no no see that's why that's why I ain't You see
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get your ass up out of there uh so you know I I've been taking my
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daughter up and we're going snowboarding we ride the tram and we've ridden the gondola at Heavenly as well and then
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also the chairlifts right and so when you go up and you're on in the gondola
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it's like its own self-contained compartment essentially and you can fit
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like four or five people in there right with your skis and snowboards you hold
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your skis and snowboards they're not attached to you right the tram is the same thing as a gondola except it holds
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like 50 or 70 people the same way right and it's much bigger and then they have
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the chairlifts which you get on the chairlift and you have either your skis attached to your feet with your poles in
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your hands or you have your snowboard attached to one foot and then you kind of you know get in that chairlift that
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comes up behind you grabs your butt and takes you off right so the next one I
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ain't doing none of that bro no you ain't What's up i ain't riding on none of those lifts you talking about look
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all that [ __ ] you just said right now that [ __ ] all sounded crazy to me just now bro bro you're the guy that goes up
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and cleans light bulbs at the top of one of the cell phone towers it ain't about the heights bro i see it's about control
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if I'm climb So I used to um be a tower erector so I used to climb and build
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cell towers right i've been uh 15,600 feet up climbed right um
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I don't like anything that I have to sit in that if something happens to it I'm out of there no dog okay like no i see
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yeah no I ain't on the roller coasters none of that so none of that i can't control it if I'm not drive look I'm not
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driving this ain't no way in the world bro well the way that you drive a car I
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would assume like you you know you're cool with just about anything because you're like what i have training
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i have training okay what What do you want from me yeah
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in and out in and out stop it brother um the next the next clip is is from my
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home mountain Heavenly Lake Tahoe and the crazy thing is we're going to show the first clip
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from Colorado cuz I've been doing the snowboard thing and then boom literally
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at my home spot i was there the day before this happened uh here it is
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you see that chair you see the people that's stuck in there
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no bro doing none of that bro
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so essentially what happened on this one something with the chair lift the chair
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that's attached to the cable chair just started coming back towards the other chair so the cable was moving and the
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chair wasn't so the the cable stop broke on the one that was in the front so um
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would you ride a gravitron i don't even know what a gravitron is you know it's
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the thing it's like it's like round at the fair and like you go inside of it and you stand there and it spins and it
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like pushes you i've done it when I was a kid yeah I would never do that but I I hated it yeah I would never do that i
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seen I just saw a video earlier of a lady on a gravitron that she was in there with her kids trying to show off
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like this is what I used to do when I was a kid like and like was getting up high on the wall and like she literally
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was holding on for life trying to stop her body from being folded in half cuz
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the gravitron like had her was pushing her head down it was going to literally fold her in half and she was literally
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Oh my god that doesn't sound like fun and when that when it when it when it finally relaxed you could see her just you could see the thank god on her face
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bro and like Oh yeah like look bro it's a it's a thing like
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it's on a cable it's inside of uh if I can't control it
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that's like so like I won't go to like uh I won't go to like New Year's Eve in
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Times Square or I won't go to anywhere where there's like too many people if if my skill set if my unique skill set
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cannot help you cannot get me out of somewhere Yeah because of volume of
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people Yeah i ain't going to be there yeah you know what i'm I'm cool with
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that man i don't need to go to those places anymore i've done some stuff like that and I had fun but I would say now
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as I'm getting older it it it's just I feel cattle hurting kind of thing and
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it's just so many people we're in America and America has a what
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mob mentality right one runs everybody runs don't even know hey nobody even
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knows why we're running yeah and then people get trampled you know exactly so
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back to this heavenly thing this you know who gets trampled right uh people
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like me no the fall no remember those people I was talking about remember when I said when stuff hits the fan you'll be
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surprised how many people freeze oh yeah yeah those are the ones that get trampled those are the ones that hit the
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ground first and everybody else starts tripping over them and that's when it goes down yeah okay i hear you it's true
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bro only seen it uh this chair lift uh I forget what chair it was i think it was
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Comet uh it was what it was the Comet chair what do you mean at Heavenly what
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you mean this is the the lift that brings up all all the skiers and stuff what did you call it it's called the
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Comet this is They have different names shooting star Comet yeah they have
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different names every chairlift has a different name yeah uh you not each each
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individual chair but the the lift itself that sends all the chairs up each one
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has its own name who knew yeah so you know Heavenly has like 17 different
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chair lifts well they all have their own name so you know if you're snowboarding
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I'm like talking to my buddy that's at the lodge yeah we're on the Comet chair then he could go up and we'll meet you
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at the top you know so you know cuz you're on a big old mountain you know um
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I I know my neighbor up in South Lake Tahoe he actually rides that chairlift
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that's his lift that he rides and I I haven't been back there uh since this
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happened but I I'm hoping Alvin's okay um and I'm hoping he wasn't one of those
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but he also was probably there to witness it and has a you know uh firsthand story for me of what happened
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right on so this next uh next thing we're going
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into is is the best of the best in armed forces
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m you know we we've been talking about doing something on the armed forces
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since our first episode yeah we're going to do a a piece like an actual piece
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something bigger where we uh contribute some good time uh to this cuz this is something that's
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definitely near and dear to me because my father is a a Green Beret mhm um and
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I got family that's been in the military my whole life and for generations yeah
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and uh these guys are the guys that like everyone's service is important uh all
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branches of service are very important uh all levels of soldier are important but these guys are the best of the best
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in the world yeah the most elite special forces yeah we have we have the um
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the top fighting forces in the world here out of the United States of America and at one time it was only um army that
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had special forces and then they all start to get special forces and now I believe they're like
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kind of all under the same kind of umbrella if I'm not mistaken from what my dad was telling me well let's uh here
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we go so this is just a a little video that we have here
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the Marine Raiders
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boy's bad they have par rescue
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they going to come get you oh they're the ones that save your life in hostile areas oh wow in the war zone they come
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get you in the war zone really that was your pops
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yeah I'll take over your government and the Navy Seals
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wow man airborne Delta Force
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i'm surprised they said it even existed yeah cuz it's so secret man
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wow yeah special thanks to um all
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members of the United States Armed Services mhm and a special thanks to
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our elite special force members man i mean thank you guys so much for your
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services and your dedication and all that you guys had to go through to even get to do what you're doing yeah
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essentially protecting our way of life and there's all kinds of politicized
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stuff oh it's way and things are really nuts with you know all the industrial
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war complex and and all this stuff military industrial complex so there's a lot of stuff that like we are um in the
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United States we a lot of times are thinking about our government and what's happening here and all this stuff not understanding the impacts that are
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global that that are impacting us on a day-to-day basis and the people that are
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out there that you don't hear about that are fighting well
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wars are not happening yeah we're not at war but they're these guys are out here preserving our way of life every day man
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in different parts of the world just to maintain uh God knows what in terms of
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some type of um resource you know uh some who knows what
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for whatever reason uh again thank you guys from us yeah yeah thanks so much
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for protecting us you know we're going to speak a lot more
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about the armed forces in the future this is just like a little clip to start
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start the conversation right um and speaking of Yeah speaking of here here
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here's here's the other one not only not only uh would we like to thank the men
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and women of the United States armed forces we would also like to thank the
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porposes yeah the porposes they're very purposeful
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of them
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the handler signal location
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will drag the diver to the surface
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what do
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I do
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yeah I I'll take a dolphin with me in the water any day let's go let's go i
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mean you know we both spent a bunch of time in Florida so you've been anywhere
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in Florida out close to the water or on the water you've seen dolphins they're everywhere and you know dolphins are
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they're playful they're fun like they literally come up to the boat i had a relationship I had a relationship with a
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dolphin and I would Yeah i would get off of work at uh 5 in the morning and go down to um
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I want to say first Yeah it's like first in Ocean at this uh
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at the uh you know this you know where you keep the marina down there uh-huh and there's this little area
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that uh water falls into the water uh-huh and he would just be over there no kidding yeah i pull up on him and he
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chop you know what I'm saying really oh man i mean dolphins are so cool i had
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no idea that you know we as humans and our military found a way to put them to
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work i wish it was now like then back then I would have got in the water with him yeah i was just scared i didn't know
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i I did not start free diving yet oh yeah oh okay if it was like then I I
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would have been like "Right I I probably would have rode a dolphin bro." Oh I've I've rode a dolphin my kid
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um swam with whale sharks oh he did whale sharks those are huge yeah he swam
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with whale sharks in the Philippines uh this summer huh wow yeah i in Mexico I swam with
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dolphins that's dope it was not you know it was in the pool at a place where you
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go do this rather than out in you know but uh you know held on the fin and it
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like pulled me up and like did this stuff and I remember the they did
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another thing where you kind of you put your legs out right and then it comes behind you and and you know grabs your
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feet and pushes you out of the water and you kind of like stand up right so I did
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it and uh this was an insurance trip and I remember like I I took a bunch of I
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won all these trips i took my mom and all that yeah exactly and so my mom's
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out there so we're swimming with the dolphins and you know you go for the
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first thing where you meet them and then like they come up next to you and you hold them and you know they take a
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picture or whatever and then then you ride them like this you hold their fin and then the last one where you know
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they come up behind you and put you know their their nose in your foot and push
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you out of the water when it comes to my mom's turn she like she goes to do it
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and I swear it started lifting her out of the water and it it just her uh
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hamstring she just it just buckled buckled ripped her hamstring my mom the
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rest of the vacation was like black and blue like oh man the dolphin was the
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nicest thing it didn't mean to do was just try to get her out of the water but you know she she learned she wasn't
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supposed to ride dolphins poor mom you know um so these dolphins
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here that go underwater find mines yeah they'll pull your mask off your
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face i mean they use put a buoy on your back send you up that's kind of smart they're
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dope so the dolphins go down they're holding this buoy thing attaches it to them and then you got it sucks you up to
1:30:46
the and you're they're like again they live sonar yeah they just have it crazy bro wow um
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they watch they gonna be neural link they probably neurolinking the dolphins bro you know what they might they're
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probably neurolinking them already who knows what is out there that we haven't been made to see n what I'm saying is
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you hearing about like what's available to the public from Elon Musk but you ain't hearing about what he's selling to the government
1:31:15
that's true that's true um
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Yeah it's wild um that's wild man so are we
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um are we So we have a couple more we have jumping off rocks and then we have
1:31:34
people who stay genuinely joyful i mean [ __ ] i could rap to be honest you want
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to rap we're about about there right oh we be going we all be We could be all be
1:31:46
happy i feel like I feel like what we just did was really good and I feel like
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All right yeah i mean that's what we were trying i don't want to ask for too much i feel like
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All right let's do it think about relationships and parenting John
