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they say wise men speak because they have something to say yeah they also say fools speak because they have to say
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something well here we are there you go yeah we forget that one well well
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relax all right all right all right welcome back to another episode of the
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Gambler and the Guardian i am Nathan also known as the Guardian and I'm
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Anthony i'm known as the gambler yeah man we're back at it haven't stopped yep
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yep you know I I'm feeling a little sense of being more comfortable
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every time just a little bit more comfortable little bit little bit easier yeah man um just trying to figure it out
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just uh happy to have everybody here with us figure it out with us yeah this
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is uh it's becoming more fun every time we do it uh building our relationship
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i'm learning so more about what's going on is as you know as you're sending me all these different you know articles
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and videos to look at i'm not really hip with all the stuff that's going
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on you know you'll talk about it and then I'll be like "Huh no I haven't seen that." And you're like "Bro how can
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There's so much stuff going on." And like you know as we do this like you know we uh we're like playing with
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different types of topics and different types of content just to see where where we're comfortable what we like to do and
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you know uh how how our people react to us and um you know we're going to shift some gears sometimes you know yeah
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there's definitely been a variety of what we've spoken about most certainly most certainly and that's what's kept it
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interesting and fun and even this last one where we talked about relationship
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advice when I'm not in a relationship you know it's kind of like yeah but you've been there yeah you've been there
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you have your experiences you know and um you know all those insights are important from all from all aspects but
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today today is going to be a it's going to be a variety show today yeah it's going to
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be fun today so you ready to jump in jump right into it all right
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so Georgia man orders a drill and gets a photo of a drill
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instead yeah man this is cold blooded man i saw this on there this guy ordered a drill that like he ordered like a set
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like you know you get the drill and like you know a few batteries a couple chargers and the whole nine and um I
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clicked on it and uh it was literally this older brother sitting there like this with his drill it was like a piece
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of paper with a picture of it so it's like "Yeah man we got to be real careful." Like how do you like how
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do you navigate that he ordered it from AliExpress right it's like I don't know what the difference is between Alibaba
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AliExpress Teeu or any Hey I'm to be honest I'm frightened to order from any of them i I've never even made a
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purchase on uh on eBay if I'm being honest oh really i've never even made a purchase on eBay actually eBay is pretty
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legit yeah but you got to see you got to have you gota you can't go into it with that mind state either you got to know that you got to look at every you got to
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look every seller though every seller has a rating yes that's what's important when you're buying on eBay yeah but eBay
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also depending on what you're buying right i I've looked at gold chains on there right oh no well everything gets
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verified so part of the process is the money goes into eBay they hold it they
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get the product then they look at the product they told me the chain that I
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was looking at which I thought it was 63 gram it came out and it was 53 57 g or
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something so not that much difference but how whoa whoa whoa say that again
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yeah so I thought it was like 63 g it came out and it was 57 that's quite
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significant when it comes to gold brother that's a lot of money but when you're on the purchasing side of the
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retail market you know it all comes down they're they're selling it so much higher than
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the raw weight of gold anyway so it comes down to to a number that you're
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willing to pay for the chain right but for me it was like they didn't come down
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on the number enough and I looked at it and it was like this is a bait and switch which is similar to what this guy
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in Georgia bro yeah so I turned it down and said nah in the end gold price went
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up and the chain that I would have got would have been a good deal compared to if I was going to go get that chain now
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well let's just let's just listen to his story okay so so the title of this this
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is from Soap Central thank you soap Central uh oldest scam in the book
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internet in splits as Georgia man orders a drill from
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AliExpress and reportedly gets a photo of the product instead aliexpress is regarded as one of
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the most popular e-commerce platforms consider this scenario one fine morning
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you might experience the adrenaline rush of building a wall-mounted bookshelf you decide to purchase a drill machine
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online and you find a platform that is selling one at an affordable price
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equipment being delivered to your doorstep at a cheap price is quite a deal right this incident about a Georgia
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band receiving a picture of the drill instead of the product can make you
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reconsider your decision look at this picture bro look at this yeah this is the picture so So this is what he got i
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heard him I heard him talk about it it was like It was sad bro oh really yeah i didn't hear all that but you got to be
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realistic about things sometimes too though it's like bro if you buy that drill in the store it's going to be like
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$200 bro you're going to get this drill and two batteries and a charger and all this extra stuff for $40 you got to be
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like you have to be realistic and not be naive like you have to not want something more than what is realistic
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yeah there's this old saying goes "Is it too good to be true?"
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Yeah sounds like it's too good to be true if you're going to get something for 20% of the cost I feel like that's
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like the game bro where they're like shuffling the what's this uh what's this called five card monty no what's it
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called that one i don't even know you know where they got the card and I I do that's what it looked like i got a story
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about that these cats be shuffling boy yeah they do they do so a man from
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Savannah Georgia Sylvester Franklin ordered some tools on AliExpress for 40
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bucks the purchase items were a drill and a $22 pressure washer he was taken
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aback by what he received instead of a pressure washer he got a screw and a picture of the drill instead of an
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actual he's claimed that he is still trying to get a refund from the company but no action has been taken in his case
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sylvester Franklin said "This is not good this is real bad." I would have
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paid money to be a fly on the wall in his house when he opened the box maybe
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you know he was so mad bro i would have just died to see him bro oh man he was probably pissed i I've ordered something
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from Teimu uh which I will never use again but it it came out and it was like
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this big and Yeah but they say that uh from what I understand they have an
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outstanding exchange policy teimu I know somebody that buys from him all the time
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like really yeah I know somebody that he's like Yeah they go ham on Timu i just can't get over the fact that when
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you enter into the site there's the spinning thing oh every time brother and and it's like oh so I'm going to get 80%
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off 80% off oh this is a good deal and then how it packages it all up it just
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feels so scammy n it's because of people like you don't want some real stuff like I'd be flirting with Teimu i really I
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really considered buying stuff but because of people like you we coming out here with your little stories like I see
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something that like I'm looking for something specific to see if it's like does Teamu possibly have it right i look on there it's there it looks real right
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and I'm like damn it's not sitting next to anything i'm like I can't compare it in scale i don't know how big it is for
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real like I think I'm going to get like uh a scuba tank this big or something you know what I mean so so to finish off
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his quote Sylvester Franken said "This is not good this is really bad all this is
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bad." You know what I mean don't scam nobody i don't like to get scammed because you
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spend your money you want to get what you pay for i mean I totally agree with
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Sylvester man um but this But be keep it real Sylvester like you you sound like a
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cheapkate brother oh you ain't even like you you outside of you outside of the
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the the scope of reality when it comes to purchases it sounds like brother you be careful out there so yeah he he's
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going for the good deals if you a frugal person like look so let me let me let me just say
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this i am like um I'm like the ultimate consumer yeah
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you are i'm an impulse buyer mhm i know everything about like what's needed to
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keep a person like myself in the store and what else I know about uh self through cars is this
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i am always willing to pay more money than something is worth to get it right now than I will
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pay the regular price to have to wait for it to come yep there's a lot of people that's like that so if you're
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like me there's like a extreme opposite or if you're a person that's extremely
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on the frugal side you have to be very careful and like consider yourself and who you are well when you when you're
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getting yourself into these things yeah so perfect example of this I I go with my daughter we go we're we're looking
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for new Bibles to to start studying together and so now I was looking at Amazon found
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some but you can't hold it you can't touch you can't open the pages you can't see how y'all need to need to go to
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Barnes & Noble brother so that's what we do we went right down to Barnes & Noble sure enough like "Oh I like this one
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Dad." I'm like "Yeah that one's awesome." In fact I found a new one that I was like "Oh this is pretty cool
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myself." I'm afraid of this like like that the books is going to die out after our generation like I feel like books
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are not going to be I feel like books are going away little by little you keep interrupting me as I'm doing my
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So so finally I say "All right Bella well how
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much is that?" "Oh 50 bucks." "Oh mine's 50 bucks." Well let's just look on Amazon and see how much it is pull it up
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on Amazon $19.99 same book there's got to be
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something different so we go in there's a cover that goes on
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it well if you buy it at Barnes & Noble you get the cover but is that cover a
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$30 cover compared to just getting the Bible itself so we chose to say thanks
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Barnes & Noble for letting us come out here touch feel figure out which one we wanted but it'll be at our doorstep
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tomorrow from Amazon and instead I could buy five of them instead of just
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two so that that was our choice right that's very interesting yeah that is
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something like when you buy book right you got the soft cover you got the hard cover you got the covered book but like
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again like I think my mind is in random places today you get me thinking about these
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books do kids even use book covers anymore
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oh I don't think so i've never seen my daughter pull out a a brown paper bag
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cut it make a book cover this kind of goes back to what I was saying like it just strikes me like preser like that
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was like for what reason do we for preservation right pre preserve the book right make it last longer i just feel
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like as time is going by like the books is going out little by little i'm I'm
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wondering if if we're going to be able to preserve all of this stuff man i think you're definitely hitting on a
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valid point there's there's pressure for it all to be online so now you have
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Audible where you listen to it you have uh the Kindle where you go through and
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you read the book you purchase the book but it's a digital copy right so that
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takes away from a hard copy of a book right you could still get hard copies
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but I'm sure it's you know that market is divided between people that don't
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take a hard copy and others that that do i feel like the accessibility of the information right that you can look up
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specific information that you need when you need it i feel like it may take away from the desire to go in depth as you
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would when reading a book i feel like that's something o over time that is going to have an effect on
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the masses like uh because humans work in like a funny way which is
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uh want need and then have to yeah yeah
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so a lot of people care a lot about conveniences
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for sure so it's like I don't see it going in a in a good direction like I feel like later on in time
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like I feel like the knowledge is going to be diluted oh it's it's constantly being diluted
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it's part of a big master plan that's happening where certain
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books you cannot get anymore it's private stock
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you know uh because the what was written in them they they don't want to have it
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out there in the public anymore um yeah we could go down this rabbit
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hole or we could talk about this show performer as a mermaid
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that got almost got eaten in an aquarium tank that is a very interesting one um
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I didn't never see I've never seen a sturgeon bite a person before i I don't
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know them to be uh fish that would do that you know they they are bottom they're a bottom feeder
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a bottom feeder yeah um they eat a lot of stuff out of the mud
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primarily so that that that fish even did that it was must have been bored but also this is it's in captivity right
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like Yeah so this is what happened there's there's mermaid that's hanging
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in a fish tank there's fish swimming around of some of the fish is a giant
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sturgeon right uh the show performer dressed as a mermaid learned the hard
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way recently that sharing an aquarium tank with an enormous sturgeon is not
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safe the accompanied So there's a video that goes along with this too that we'll show you it was captured in China shows
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the mermaid performing gracefully in front of the audience that included children when the sturgeon briefly
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sucked her head into his mouth the woman clearly startled but remaining somewhat
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graceful ascended without further incident yeah I'm certain for that quick
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second that she was suffocating that it was it seemed like an eternity i'm sure
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yeah I'm sure and and when you watch a video for me it was like this thing
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where she's like get this off my head and then it worked which is crazy so
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let's watch this video here we go it I don't think it was trying to hold her though it just was like like you know like a little like a warning shot or
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something didn't taste good bro he he he took a he took a chunk and was like get
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it out of here trash the hot tui oh the hatouille
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mermaid was performing fories yeah it's graceful man
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[Music] masha's face you see his mouth it just went out there yeah they they just
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Oh got her nose clip and goggles was allegedly forced back into the
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aquarium where is Where what country was this in it was in China she got $96 for moral
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damages masha's ended masha sound like Masha
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sounds like looks like she's Russian she's over there and trying to be in a mermaid they're like "We need a
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different We need a different color mermaid over here." So they brought in Masha masha got chopped by a by a
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sturgeon masha was like "I'm good." They were like "No Masha you go get your ass back in that water today." Yeah yeah
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here's 96 bucks she Can Masha even buy goggles and the
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nose nose plugs with that oh good call damn you know y'all ain't over there so
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these mermaid shows Masha needs to go to Wikiwatchi in Florida outside of Tampa
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man bro why do you know what that is brother what is that oh this is one of the coolest places on the planet oh boy
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oh man so I I went there with my daughter we went paddle boarding down
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Wikiwatchi where you know there is uh one of the the sea cows
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manatees in the water swimming were on the paddle boards and then they have this it's it's
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you know uh uh stream crystal clear
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water extremely cold and it's it's fresh water but it merges into it becomes
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brackish yeah that's brackish where the fresh meets the salt and then in the the public area cuz it's a it's also a water
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park you know we did the tour thing on the on the paddle boards but they have the water park and they have a whole
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mermaid show i think Masha needs to hit them up she's she's got a story she go
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work at Wii Wiki Watchi bro the only place I ever I've ever seen a mermaid was in
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uh this is I forget what part it's in Montana bro they got this
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like weird little bar what's the capital of Montana helena
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it's not there it's in the city uh Boseman no no that's that's country
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brother that's where the Indians are i'm just shooting out names in Montana bro but there's this little bar dude like a
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hotel like small hotel with a bar and like behind the bar is this big ass window and there's like like mermaid in
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the bar like in this what the hell is bro i'll take you right here in Sacramento we'll go places literally
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called Dive Bar and they got mermaids chilling right
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there the appeal i mean mermaids are the age-old sensual
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kind of being it's like if you were a sailor and you're out there on a ship
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and you're looking out and all you got is dudes around you you're wishing a mermaid would show up i don't know
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brother the I'm sure there's more to it that's a lot that's that's that's a lot to think
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about so uh we'll switch it up here this one This one it's uh Oh yeah it's a
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little different the guy's a scumb bucket so this this guy I guess some people Oh
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oh dude so what a dick hey man so what's happening here he he like
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looked to see if the damage was good enough to be like "Okay." He does it
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four times right i'm just saying so me I'm a I'm a car guy i really might I might have went to jail over this [ __ ]
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like oh so this this cop is just opening the door in the garage and it just keeps
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smacking the the door of this this this person's car and and and repeatedly
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doing it um intentionally man this is just Come on man what an abuse man yeah so if he
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was trying to like get away with it he would have just had the initial one
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where he walked out and he just should have flew the door open hard one time i
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think I think it's obvious that he didn't know the car was that close to
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the door at the beginning or else he would have just flung it open hella fast and been like "Oh my bad." Hey no so he
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opened it and it hit it and he was like "Word that's what he did." Hey hold on hey hold on that's what he did hold up
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hold up so I mean what was this dude doing in the garage anyway he was up in somebody's stuff searching
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it i don't know if boring or not they They was in there nobody I don't see anybody complaining about him being in
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there but yeah this is definitely I'm sure going to be a problem for him this is definitely It's It's not like back in
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the day where you get a ride it's a moral character type thing oh a character flaw for certain yeah this
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this guy now he's he's not a good guy he's not a good person not a good guy like so that's like the thing where you
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know if somebody will do something small they going to do something big when nobody's looking right that's what's
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integrity right integrity means like what you're going to do when no one is
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looking yes you know that you're going to still do the right thing and that guy clearly does not have integrity no he
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clearly does not low morals and standards on that fellow yeah use some of your words he's out of there he out
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of there get him out of there
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oh so this one uh it's from the Irish Star
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this is in Mississippi so I'm sorry before you start this this story just
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for anybody i don't you know wherever you live at you know we live in California we often it's the most
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liberal state in the union we often complain about stuff but like yeah we have it we have it really
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good here that's the truth before you think about complaining
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about the politics where you live and before you think
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about not being grateful about your circumstances listen to this all right
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so US Senator introduces bill to ban men from
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masturbating hey yo and everyone says same thing so a Mississippi senator shocked
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residents last week as he proposed a sacrificial a satirical
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satirical satirical new bill that would bizarrely see men fined for
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masturbating it has left everyone wondering how it could possibly be enforced
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it was last Monday January 20th that Mississippi State Senator Bradford
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Blackman why you had to be a blackmon made the unusual move to
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propose that it should be made unlawful within the state for men to masturbate in any other sex sexual relations that
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are involved discharging genetic material without the express intention
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of fertilizing a human egg you ain't going to put that stuff out there without no egg brother ain't no egg
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ain't no ain't no shooting ain't no b ain't no busting shots so he says it's going to be illegal once this bill goes
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through to release your load if it ain't fertilizing a human egg
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stop that you're wasting it yeah yeah yeah that's it here so he goes
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"Meanwhile the bill which has been called the contraception begins at erection act."
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Let me say that again for you Nick contraception begins at erection act
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would still need to make its way past Republican Governor Tate Reeves for it to become set in law it has left many
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wondering how such rules could ever be enforced by those in power well you know
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how they do it they like to hit you where it hurts your pocketbook yeah well check this out if the habit is made
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unlawful it's proposed that those in those that do it what does it say
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contra I'm sorry where are you man i'm having trouble reading because there's a dash in there those intended to do
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contravention of the bill would be handed fines that would start at a,000 bucks for the first offense 5,000 for
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the second and 10,000 for any offenses after that however men who use
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contraception and those intended to donate to sperm banks would be exempt
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from new proposals can you help me understand this
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uh however men who use contraception yeah how does this apply
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so am I interpreting this the wrong
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way that if you squeeze off into a
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contraceptive you're exempt that's what he's saying but if you shoot it into a
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anything else that doesn't have an egg at minimum it's gonna cost you
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$1,000 a pop is that right yeah oh no man you
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guys get get Senator Blackman out of there yeah this is a this is a funny one man
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this is a funny one as Senator Bachmann said the satirical move was in response
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to Mississippi state law banning women from having abortions with the only
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exemptions being to save the mother's life or if the pregnancy resulted from rape oh that's deep i ain't even trying
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to get into none of that Anthony yeah I I'm with you in a statement Senator said
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how the law was aimed at addressing a gender imbalance all across the country
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especially here in Mississippi the vast majority of bills related to contraception and/or abortion focus on
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women's role when men are 50% of the equation he added "The bills highlights
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that fact and brings the man's role into the conversation people get up in arms
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and call it absurd but I can't say that bothers me if the bills pass it would
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become effective July this year listen brother but commentators think it's unlikely to pass we'll leave we'll leave
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it up to our audience to discuss anything surrounding this
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uh but how would they enforce,000 to 10,000 a pop to me sounds absolutely
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insane how would they enforce it how would they know that you did what you But you got to think about there's
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people who like it just just hypothetically this is this will never happen but hypothetically if it did though there's like people who are just
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like bugged out scared lawbody law abiding citizens oh that that's why he's
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doing it i ain't got no Hey I ain't got a band i ain't got no extra band laying around i'm just going to have to wait
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hell to the nod brother man I don't know shout out Mississippi
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good luck guys yeah I'm about to call the Mississippi buddy i got I got something to talk to him
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about i would imagine he's not going to like this law that's wild brother that's
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wild all right here all right this one this
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next one this is a This is a good one lucky little bastard yeah so the
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Independent thank you Independent for coming up with this article here
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antiques collectors $50 garage sale purchase may be a Van Go worth 15
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mil there it is right there and I drive my lady crazy with that [ __ ] so where I live um there's a lot of estate sales
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for those of you who do not know what an estate sale is you know when the when elders are passing on crossing over to
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the next realm and they have you know something uh somewhat substantial they have an estate so they
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basically sell all of their stuff and like dude I've I've come up in these
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estate sales like Yeah it's usually a really good deal right yeah but the problem is it's like you always think
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it's a good deal you really like unless you're like a collector that you know and that's my problem my problem is I am
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a collector of some things the things that I know very well I do but I I like
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try to dabble in other types of collecting that I'm not nearly as knowledgeable on and I'm like cutting
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through with these sales and I'm like "Oh look at that right there how much is that?" Yeah $25
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that's it babe it's only $25 she's just looking at me like "Yo here we go
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again." M you know and um but sometimes it it pans out you know and things like
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this happen it is rare for certain but you don't know what the people have in their house man
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people have been everywhere you know and things are shuffling around people give
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people things it's gifts a lot of different stuff around you don't never know what's some in someone's house man
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yeah i have a couple of friends in Florida that they buy all their stuff
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from estate sales but what ends up happening is they got a garage full of
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all the stuff they got a storage unit they start and they're like "Oh I got this i got this." And they might have
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got it for not one of them yeah exactly and they're not using them you know um
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but definitely these estate sales got something to be had but this picture uh
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is absolutely gorgeous oh yeah this specific one i believe it's called the fisherman no
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uh a fisherman it's a fisherman wearing a hat yeah it's a painting of a fisherman but it has the what do you
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call the essence of a Van Go painting if you look at it for sure
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yeah so essentially it sold for $50 at a garage sale could be worth 15 million
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canvas was found by an unsuspecting antiques collector at a
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Minnesota garage sale in 2016 and now historians scientists and curators have
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teamed up to prove that it is an oil painting by the Dutch artist damn so the
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painting bears a resemblance to Van Go's work and depicts a fisherman smoking a pipe as he tends to his net on an empty
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beach expert have called the painting Elar because the name is etched into the
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lower right hand corner of the canvas i don't know alamar might be the the artist
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yeah exactly um an exhaustive multi-year
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investigation of the painting by experts in several fields has yielded the evidence required to identify Elmar as
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an autograph work by the artist New York art research firm lmi Group
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International which acquired the painting from the antiques collector declared its 450 page report the group's
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findings will be shared with the Van Go specialists and the art dealers around the world okay so what's up is this
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thing real or not right they argue that the portrait was painted while Van Gogh
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was in the St paul asylum in France St remy de Province between May 1889 and
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May 1890 lmr is clearly based upon a painting by the Danish artist Michael
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Anker the report said Van Go did not copy but translated Anker's work
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oh esper said the portrait also represents a time in the artist's life
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when he was returning to themes and images from his youth h well that's interesting i guess you
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never know you could get lucky yeah um somebody was like "Yo that might be a
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Van Go worth 15 million." I'd be like "I I give it to you for five right now."
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Yeah yeah let me get a quick sale let me get a quick sale and and move forward
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uh so this next one comes from Soap Central again yeah I found this one to be very
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interesting china has been playing with some type of artificial sun yeah artificial sun yes i
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I don't like their son i thought you could only have two kids in China
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isn't that how it is son oh the son yes the
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son yeah so China has been playing with some like
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sun dude like some artificial sun so I I I haven't done as much research on this subject as as I should have because uh
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immediately I'm going to read the read the headline here um if you could pull
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it back up uh China's artificial sun sets record with 100 million degree heat
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for 18 minutes medicine's troll that's playing with fire so my my questions are first and
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foremost how big is this artificial yeah it can't be something that's very big
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because one it's 18 100 million degrees right
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two how do you contain something that's 100 million degrees and
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three what type of instrument can measure the heat of something that's 100
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million degrees is that even accurate at that point whoa how could you even measure that how
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would you know at what point its accuracy might be tapering off
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like what is the margin for error on something like this yeah what's the difference between uh 1 million degrees
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and 100 million like would you be able to tell the difference no that shit's
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hot but that's that's that's that's these are the different variables I'm thinking about when I read this but um
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China's artificial sun recently set a record by maintaining a temperature of 100 million degrees for 18 minutes
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that's hotter than your coffee and most likely hotter than uh most likely your
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temper when the Wi-Fi is slow scientists out there are acting as cosmic cooks
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creating a little sun on Earth while we're having trouble with the thermostat
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we may have sunny days even while it's pouring if the trend continues just
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remember to wear sunscreen why are we doing this is my question is this is like
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uh I'm certain it has something to do with with with power right yeah so here
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we go the artificial sun also known as the experimental advanced
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superconducting tokamat tokome and and abbreviated east conducted a
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groundbreaking experiment china has been working to develop nuclear fusion technology in an effort to mimic the
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sun's power here on Earth and the East has achieved a feat by sustaining plasma
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for over 17 minutes or 1,000 seconds breaking its previous record for plasma
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confinement m the milestone reflects a major advancement for this new fusion
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energy research which breaks a previous record of 403 seconds achieved a few
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years ago nuclear fusion the mechanism that powers the east has been long
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heralded as the holy grail of power generation and the best way to achieve
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sustainable energy china's artificial sun could be a step closer for the world
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toward infinite clean energy or at least a new excuse to blame when the AC
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mysteriously stops working in the summer let's just hope they don't accidentally toast the planet while they're at it wow
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that's That was going to be my next question is what happened to it after the 17
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minutes oh that's a really good question does it explode like is it It sounds like it it
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sounds like It sounds like it does something catastrophic yeah i mean how long does it take to They're like "Yeah
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they're like "Yeah 10,000 people died real quick." But we ain't going to tell nobody about that that's something to
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think about that's definitely something to think about like where are y'all doing this at i'm pretty sure it would
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have said that in this article yeah says the observation though made in Jess
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draws attention to the fact that scientists are actually playing with fire burning energy only to keep things
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hot nitzens are what is it netzens are obviously having a great
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time when scientists spend energy to keep something sizzling for a thousand
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seconds they're obviously literally toying with fire it's something like attempting to maintain a bonfire on a
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windy day only if used properly this fire could fuel the world's future if
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they continue in this direction they may soon be selling tickets to the world's hottest backyard barbecue where the
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rules of physics might be the only thing being cooked not to mention that we might all
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soon be residing in homes powered by fusion if they are able to crack the issue imagine living in a future where
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your coffee maker is essentially a miniature star your refrigerator is powered by plasma and your toaster is
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powered by the sun here we go the drawback in order to tolerate the
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intense light you'll most likely need to wear sunglasses indoors yeah what I'm
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saying is like we're we're getting way too far that's a problem with humans man you know we get an idea and we get so
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far ahead of oursel Yeah that we hurt ourselves later we're talking about dealing with food and things with this
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stuff we don't know what type of effect this is going to have on the human body over time totally you understand so this
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is these people are crazy but you know what I did think about
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people are crazy you know what I thought about dude
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all you got to do if you want to know something about this if you want to know what happened when it exploded I mean
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what happened at the end of the 17 minutes you ask what's it called deepseek you ask Deepseek deep Seek is
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Hey Deep Seek out here telling Deep Seek hey Deep Seek out here telling secrets
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that they don't want him to tell yeah this is definitely something that's happening here man but alongside that
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though off topic man real quick you know the thing what happened with Tik Tok how it was supposed to be banned
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dude i I realized something yesterday that came to my attention you know cuz I play games man
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like video games and I play games on my phone and stuff there's several games that I
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played that have been removed from the app store from January 20th 2024
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so the same So there was other games that those people were playing with
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other companies in China oh and those other companies in China also did not want to comply
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and so it's not just Tik Tok no Tik Tok is the one that has the notoriety that had the largest following but we're
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talking about some uh some apps that have like you know 300,000 600,000 1
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million followers you know or better people that's playing these games and those are just gone i was yesterday like
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going to play a game and I was like bro I know I have this app bro so they brought Tik Tok back but a lot of the
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damage was done they're gone bro they're gone there's a bunch of them there's a bunch of those apps out of China that
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they were just like "Yeah now China you ain't you ain't you ain't uh complying you're out." So So what happened with
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all Tik Tok so it's back like it never left uh and it left for a couple hours
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but I guess the the uh proposal is something along the lines of half of the
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company will belong to the American government or something of this nature
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yeah oh so the government is really upset that China is getting all this
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crazy data and all that stuff but as long as they own half it's cool yeah so
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in my opinion uh I think it's more to do with uh the technology itself um it has
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been said by many people that the platform of Tik Tok itself and uh is
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superior to some of Mr musk's stuff okay
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and that it seems as though anything that's better than they want a part of
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it because they don't understand it right they want the technology so that's why they the deepseek thing is such a
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big deal it's because they were like "Yo yeah we're going to get 500 billion to
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develop this right?" And you have all these little guys you mean Chad GPT Open
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AI was going to get 500 billion well they was creating this because they
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got it they got the 500 billion they don't have the 500 billion they only had 10 billion that was put into the actual
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account to to make it happen nobody had the money straight forward to do it
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that's Yeah so they was talking about it and it was going to happen and so this is good for that industry right so you
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have a whole bunch of little guys that's like damn that's 500 billion pump into our space that's good for us
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well couple days later these guys are like "Be off of five million we already did
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that." Yeah whatever you're thinking of we done already we done already broke the internet on that and it's here here
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you go and it's open source hey that that's the crazy thing it wasn't like It wasn't like well we've been working on
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this and here's this concept or not like hey you know what though y'all talking about this here here you go roll it out
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roll it out roll it out yeah because it also means if they did that how much
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further ahead are they in reality oh they're Yeah but yeah realistically man
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we they gave that up we are We are We don't think we think like so small here
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politically not understanding like the amount of So you know how like you have somebody that hustles they get by but
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the guy that works the job every day and is just consistent he just does much better yeah kind of i feel like China is
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that guy i feel like China is the guy that like it doesn't matter if you agree with his policy or not or how he does
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things or not he's he has the oldest company in the world which kind of makes him
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successful and how you going to tell him how to do [ __ ]
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yeah I kind of understand you know what I'm saying like I agree I agree with a lot of the sentiments of some of the
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things that we don't agree with because we're American yeah yeah but uh we're
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not I don't think we're being realistic about who these people are like what
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they have over there like bro like are are we are we are we acting
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like we're not seeing them build uh cities in like a week like this [ __ ] is
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building cities in a week dog yeah they don't have all the uh You know how long it takes them to build a bridge bro yeah
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get a permit we're telling you to build this just build it yeah but it's built like literally they have the technology
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to build it in like 4 days a week a bridge bro there was nothing there but a
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mountain and some water and another mountain at the end of the week there was a bridge that's how they're working
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over there bro so respect respect well this next one's funny man th This is uh
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it's titled a video the Harlem Globe Trotters back in action the Harlem Glock
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Glock Trotters so I think those are keys right where they're like they got the
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keys it's like get it to the guy that's going to bounce out hey yeah get it to the fastest one hey you know he the
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fastest one he was looking the whole time oh the air get Oh get him to Jarvis
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he gone he gone that boy gone yeah we don't know what happened with
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this we just thought it's it's like what a scenario that you got going on here
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the one cop's holding the guy in the orange by his arm hey that was funny though the last the last one though the
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lady cop she was hella short and the dude was short but she was so tiny look at this guy he's holding Is this fake
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come on that guy went after real bro now he got tackled against that car pretty hard
46:57
i mean we could just watch these guys are getting view after view after view from us man because nah it's fire though
47:04
i hope they um whatever they needed to get up out of there I hope they got it up out of there that's a lot of effort
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so this video would be like nothing without this awesome music and awesome
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name springing us in and going "Yeah that's another one though." Like
47:21
kids pause that real quick please kids kids kids man poor kids y'all have no
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idea about the Harlem Globe Trouters man you know when we were kids they were dope they were like you know we always
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thought they were doper than NBA players because they they were just doing all the dope tricks this is before uh they
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were the original and one yes they were the original and one except that was street and one was pure street but but
47:48
they did the same kind of tricks but Harlem Globe Trotters they were the ones like literally spinning the ball and
47:55
doing all the stuff but they were doing this at at halftime shows at NBA games though they were raw like the Globe
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Trotters were raw like that though uh yeah I definitely They're still around
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though you could still You could still go watch them oh we got I would like to see what they're looking like see like
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like compared to what it was like back then gambler Guardian are they whack are they whack now you know what I'm saying
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are they dope still oh it's still awesome when you see somebody throw it across full court and make it
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you know still you got to do if you want to see that is watch a Warriors game yeah the the preworkout for the Warriors
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game is Steph Curry shout out to Patrick Mahomes bro oh come on hey listen i'm I
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don't even watch football but it's just like I there when when you got an athlete bro that's just that much of a
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standout bro you got to love it and respect it if you're an athlete I All I see out there is all these videos about
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him and how everything works to his face bro you can ask my dad bro I was like yo
48:56
when he first came about I was like you see that boy right there i was like watch him i was like he's special i told
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my dad I was like he's going to be he's going to be one of the greatest of all time asked my dad and then this boy
49:08
start winning these Super Bowl back to back to back and every time he like he get in these situation like Joe Montana
49:14
type situations and then just come out shining and I'd be like "Dad I tell you
49:20
that boy is like Steph Curry with football pads." Yeah he's definitely got some skills he's definitely good on the
49:28
same note uh I've been seeing the videos come on brother i You'll watch our
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listeners in the comments they'll be telling you man it's uh everything out there is making people not want to watch
49:40
football because what they do to prop him up and
49:46
keep his team you want to say that y'all y'all could argue the same thing again like there was a a discussion
49:53
between Michael Jordan and Will Chamberlain in which Will Chamberlain told him at the end of the conversation
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"Michael when I played the game they changed the game to make it harder for me." Yeah when you got involved they
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made the game easier they changed the game to make it easier for you so you know this they changed the rule uh for
50:14
free throws because Will Chamberlain used to dunk from the free throw line so they moved it back no so you can only
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shoot from the free throw line brother oh no i didn't know that that's what I'm trying to say like they change rules for
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people all the time the basketball gets softer for Michael because he used to stand at the free throw line and then
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jump m so you got the game got softer for Michael it got even softer for Kobe
50:39
and even softer for LeBron right so it's like you cannot compare it in that
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manner no you have to be it's time relative period right if you want to be like if you want to be crazy about it
50:52
just bring steroids back to football and let these boys bust heads you know what I'm saying but that's not what we're on
50:57
we're like you know we're in a time period so as I say that I digress i
51:04
digress there may be some people watching who are younger who did not see what we saw so
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when we grew up it was the end of the time period where football players and
51:16
like a lot of these athletes were using steroids this was common practice these performance-enhancing drugs and these
51:22
guys were these guys were monsters out there you know they had the attitudes to to back it they had those pads right
51:27
here and they literally just sometimes as as you say pads sometimes those guys wrapped wrapped it in um that's what I'm
51:33
saying wrapped it in um what is this stuff that they make the cast out of yeah yeah plaster plaster right so it
51:40
was a different time period so that's what we're talking about when we're talking about that but yeah um
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I don't know man yeah times change times change um apples to oranges brother yeah
51:55
so we're gonna make a drastic shift here pivot drastic pivot um this is this is
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from Everybody Loves Your Money eight relationship ties that are
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holding you back from having real love [Music]
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that's very interesting let's see if I have any of these yeah so finding real
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love can feel like a daunting journey especially when societal pressures past
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experiences and self-doubt cloud your perspective often the roadblock isn't
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external it's the lies we've come to believe about relationships that keep us
52:38
from experiencing authentic love these misconceptions can create unrealistic
52:44
expectations unnecessary fear and even sabotage your chances of building
52:49
meaningful connections let's uncover eight relationship lies that may be
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holding you back and how to overturn them okay
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one I have to be perfect to be loved one of the biggest relationship lies is
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believing you need to be flawless to deserve love perfectionism puts a
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necessary pressure on yourself and potential partners true love isn't about being
53:16
perfect it's about telling authentic uh it's about being authentic and vulnerable when you embrace your
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imperfections you give others permission to do the same creating a deeper bond
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remember flaws make you human relatable and lovable
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let go of the need for perfection and focus on being your true self
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yeah I believe in that wholeheartedly man 100% like if you should be able to
53:47
be yourself you should also wherever you're at at the
53:52
moment you're worthy of being loved i think it's a big thing though it's like
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uh you have to have consideration for your partner and who you're around and
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um I think if you are in a situation in which you can fully just let it all hang
54:15
out and without being reserved at all that's a blessing you know um but I
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don't know how I don't know how common that is i think it's very common if you
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don't have a relationship and when you have a relationship like if you do that
54:34
probably not going to have a very long relationship unless unless and like there's those there's those people like
54:39
I envy them bro that they just got they got that those that there's some relationships that's just like that that they people just accept them for who
54:45
they are and don't care finding the perfect person damn is it dang maybe I
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mean it must jive for that other person m so number two love should be
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effortless the idea that love should happen naturally without any effort is a harmful misconception
55:05
healthy relationships require work communication and compromise to thrive
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challenges and disagreements don't mean the relationship is failing there are opportunities to grow together
55:18
expecting love to be easy sets you up for disappointment when it really hits instead of instead view effort as
55:27
an investment in your relationship's longevity the strongest relationships are built on mutual effort and
55:34
intentionality so I always thought it should just work right i always kind of
55:39
thought it should just work i feel like I feel like depending on the intensity of an
55:47
argument um I feel like I feel insecure like I don't feel like I feel like
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instability because it's disharmonious right i feel like you know and maybe is
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this is just because uh some people don't know this about me yet but
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yes I am a I'm an idealist so like often I see things how
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they should be as to how they really are that's because I believe in people
56:21
and like I just want to believe in humanity but yeah man i think that
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um it is all a part of it i really like the what it says there about how there
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an opportunity to grow together like so when you have some kind of disagreement
56:45
or a challenge yeah if love is truly loving
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someone means those challenges you make the opportunity to grow together as
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about they don't feel like opposed to a part they don't feel like an opportunity when it's happening
57:04
yeah but if you know that that's what it is when I have a if I had a disagreement with you you know the whole time I'm
57:11
like "All right first off we're having a disagreement but I'm holding space that
57:17
we're going to get through this challenge and it's going to make us stronger right i know that in the back of my head you know that in the back of
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your head too so then when you approach it the one thing you don't do is pull out all your all your weapons
57:31
you approach it from a better perspective cuz you know at the other side of this
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Hey man we're still going to be moving forward we're going to be growing right so we didn't go so far as to like you
57:43
know cut off each other's legs or something yeah I I dig it all right number three I'll be happy once I find
57:51
the right person believing someone else can complete you
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is a dangerous mindset that puts your happiness in someone else's hands
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i'm going say that one again yep believing someone else can complete you
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is a dangerous mindset that puts your happiness in someone else's hands real
58:15
love comes from two whole individuals coming together not one person filling a
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void if you rely on a partner to make you happy you risk losing yourself in the
58:28
relationship focus on building and fulfilling life independently before
58:34
seeking love when you're happy on your own you're more likely to attract someone
58:40
who compliments your life that sounds really nice that and uh as me being an
58:45
idealist that sounds ideal but it doesn't sound realistic
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yeah like if you got the patience for that cool but like like say like like you're 43
58:58
yep um are you are you up here right now like
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uh let me focus on fulfilling my life independently before seeking love maybe but if
59:10
something pops up in front of you are you going to be like "I'm sorry baby but I need to focus on building and
59:16
fulfilling life independently before we get to know each other better." Highly unlikely yeah you know
59:24
no I know what you're saying but I do believe in what it's saying is if you
59:32
don't have an understanding of yourself and
59:37
independently what drives you and and what you're working on for your own uh
59:45
self-worth then it's going to be hard to be in a
59:50
relationship where you're now trying to show up as who you are and your
59:55
self-worth is not there cuz you haven't been doing your independent stuff that's all fine and well
1:00:01
again but there's the life is hard thing right and it's like life is easier with
1:00:08
a partner thing oh that's true too and it's just like being alone is hard bro
1:00:15
like when something comes about that looks like it makes sense and it makes you feel good
1:00:22
yeah that's probably a good thing yeah i mean it's it's hard to decline it's like it's it's like if for me that's a gamble
1:00:29
that I'm always willing to take yeah cuz there is also the thing where it's like
1:00:35
you you shouldn't expect shouldn't try for it it should just show up for you
1:00:41
like it'll show up for you when you're not at least expecting it is what they say it's true it's true and and so but
1:00:48
to me what that means is you're doing what you're supposed to be doing independently which is what
1:00:56
manifests that right person to show up that's how I take this thing just like
1:01:03
we're going through doing these podcasts i got these different business ventures I'm doing i'm snowboarding i'm doing
1:01:08
this stuff for me i'm like on my path i'm feeling good about my own self-esteem and what I'm doing for
1:01:14
myself independently well doing those things I believe it'll source the right lady to come into my world 100% you know
1:01:21
and and I think that's what it's trying trying to say interesting four fighting
1:01:29
means we're not meant to be oh damn
1:01:35
this is a heavy one right here yeah so if you fight you're not meant to be together
1:01:41
i mean many people assume that conflict is a sign of
1:01:46
incompatibility but this couldn't be further from the truth disagreements are inevitable in any relationship and they
1:01:54
can actually strengthen your bond if handled correctly what matters is how you communicate and resolve conflicts
1:02:01
not whether they happen avoiding fights altogether often leads to resentment and
1:02:07
unsolved issues yep healthy conflict resolution involves active listening
1:02:14
empathy and compromise don't fear fights embrace
1:02:19
them as a chance to grow closer damn
1:02:25
this is difficult for me this is a hard one for me man well it's cuz you're a fighter man well because that and I'm
1:02:30
also like I'm a my nature is soft i'm a gentle nature person yeah i don't like
1:02:38
to fight you don't like conflict yeah you're anti-conlict yeah how do you call it um there's another word for the uh
1:02:46
conflict uh it's it's um I'm anti-
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um I'll remember in a second but go ahead trying to think of the
1:02:58
word uh so that disagreements are inevitable in any relationship
1:03:05
completely true right it's gonna happen it may be something as simple as where we gonna go to eat tonight right but
1:03:14
financial disagreements where you put your money that's definitely going to be a thing that you you have to work
1:03:21
through together um you guys won't both believe in the same thing where your kid
1:03:27
goes to school all these different things pop up right and you know what it says in this number four that's so
1:03:36
important in in my you know perspective is healthy
1:03:41
conflict resolution involves active listening empathy and compromise
1:03:47
so you know conflict resolution and working through the things that are a
1:03:54
disagreement is literally how you're going to build your relationship and the
1:03:59
best relationships if you look at them that you have in your life there has been things that probably have happened
1:04:06
over the years that could have been a big thing to say "We're not friends or
1:04:12
we're not together anymore." But when you worked through them you now have this understanding of how they react
1:04:20
when something's going crazy and how that makes you feel and then so
1:04:26
I think that to have truly long-term amazing relationships it takes having
1:04:33
[ __ ] happen working through that and being better after yes
1:04:41
one the word is non-confrontational non-confrontational yes yes
1:04:47
two all this is true when having two people that are levelheaded people in
1:04:55
conversing oh this is big so as I'm looking at this I'm like yeah this is
1:05:02
all true but I'm like what's missing from here why won't Why won't this work i'm like wait a minute someone's not
1:05:08
being levelheaded there's people that bringing other stuff into these type of conversations like you know like a
1:05:15
little nastiness and saying a little extra stuff and little jabby things and stuff that is no no space for that if
1:05:22
you're trying to be productive having a certain type of tone oh yeah that will will not allow the
1:05:29
conversation to be in a nice rhythm yep that will make this happen oh man you
1:05:35
understand that's what makes things go crazy and that is a problem that's a problem that I that I see a lot of times
1:05:40
that people have um so with all that being said I think when
1:05:47
selecting a partner that so like I am one of those people like I'm I'm a
1:05:53
fool's rush in fool you know go in let's make it happen fast done
1:06:00
yeah we have to be very careful when selecting a partner
1:06:07
that we should first try to see what it's like when a argument comes about
1:06:13
before we make this major major commitment to these people yep because if this person is not a
1:06:21
level-headed person when something is happening Y then you're going to find
1:06:26
yourself in some some miserable situations yeah i think being
1:06:32
levelheaded usually comes with time so if it comes if it Yeah I guess there's
1:06:37
certain people there man i've had the experience i'm like well you'll never be level-headed uh that being said usually
1:06:47
how you approach your conflict resolution how you approach the
1:06:53
disagreement by like you said your tone how much time you take hey uh this is
1:06:59
getting out of a little bit out of hand i don't want to have the the conversation when we're all you know so
1:07:06
pumped up about it let's come back tomorrow emotionally charged yeah so emotionally charged let's come back
1:07:13
another time doing that will allow yourself to be more levelheaded when you
1:07:20
come together and then you can actually work toward a solution that's the difficulty though is is recognizing when
1:07:27
it's t time to take that walk yeah i I see this happens not just in love
1:07:33
related relationships but also in business right you get in a disagreement
1:07:38
with your business partner um it starts going down the road it goes ary then
1:07:45
it's like if if both sides are not levelheaded you're not going to be able
1:07:50
to find a path to to really support each other and move forward makes sense you know makes sense so this one this one I
1:07:59
I hear um a lot of ladies have or I believe a lot of ladies have said this right a lot
1:08:05
of men I've heard a lot of men say this oh like turn a hoe into a
1:08:11
housewife that type of thing maybe maybe that's maybe that i know i've felt
1:08:17
I've some of those too i've fallen for that so the number five is I can change
1:08:23
them believing you could change your partner to fit your ideal image is a recipe for frustration and
1:08:30
disappointment love isn't about trying to mold someone into who you want them to be it's about accepting them as they
1:08:37
are while people can grow and evolve change must come from within not
1:08:43
external pressure trying to fix someone can damage their self-esteem and create
1:08:48
tension in the relationship focus on finding a partner whose values and lifestyle align with yours instead of
1:08:56
hoping for change yeah it will all come back around to bite you in the ass for certain when you do things like this
1:09:04
this is only a selfish intention this is not to benefit the other person and
1:09:09
that's why it will never work out for you oh yeah for sure um well it it goes
1:09:15
down to also it's like you know oh you're going to meet your next wife at
1:09:20
the club right i don't go to the club so the one time that I go to the club now
1:09:26
I'm going to meet a lady and then she's going to be the one for me her lifestyle is going to you know she just happened
1:09:32
to be out tonight looking for love oh yeah the one time yeah i don't know uh
1:09:37
the changing them thing it's like people can change themselves they could choose
1:09:44
to make some changes and often if you're a positive impact in someone's life and
1:09:50
you're you know doing something a certain way they may start adjusting to
1:09:56
your way of doing things being that they see that it it's supporting them as well
1:10:02
but holding it over their head and saying you need to do this for us to work it's like you've already made a
1:10:09
decision up you guys are not the compatibility doesn't seem as though it's there
1:10:18
ah this one's a good one love should feel like a
1:10:24
fairy tale so like a lot of times people
1:10:30
have a uh picture painted yeah we've seen this as kids especially young girls
1:10:37
were always turned into princesses that you know this was a thing and it's just like many people have this
1:10:46
picture in their head of what they think is supposed to be that love is supposed to be this way a relationship is
1:10:52
supposed to be this way yeah and they enter into a relationship thinking that
1:10:58
it is supposed to be this way unwittingly setting some expectation for
1:11:05
someone y that they don't even first of all they didn't even set for real and this person is trying to live
1:11:11
up to this expectation that this person has manufactured in their head based on
1:11:17
nothing well usually it's movies other people's experiences something in their head of like this is how it needs to be
1:11:23
because I saw this Instagram post exactly so romantic stories and fairy
1:11:28
tales have set unrealistic expectations for what love should feel like in
1:11:34
reality love is less about grand gestures and more about consistent
1:11:40
everyday acts of care and commitment
1:11:46
expecting constant excitement can leave you feeling unfulfilled when things settle into a
1:11:52
routine yep real love often grows in the mundane moments cooking together sharing
1:12:00
laughter and supporting each other through challenges let go of the fantasy and
1:12:07
embrace the beauty of ordinary real life love man this hit home for me that was
1:12:13
excellent yeah i I literally look at what it said about you know the mundane
1:12:18
moments cooking together sharing laughter supporting each other that's that's what I want all this other stuff
1:12:24
of like oh we're going to ride horses on the beach it's like yeah that's going to
1:12:31
be a cool moment if we get to do it but the simple fact is whether we had a cool
1:12:36
moment doing that or not making dinner with you and taking a walk
1:12:43
a evening walk with you should be pretty awesome people want fantasies fulfilled
1:12:49
brother yeah and you know that's a crazy thing is too it's like for me like you
1:12:55
know you see in social media there's some people that build careers off
1:13:01
of complaining about you
1:13:06
know expectations and different things in relationships when there's all these
1:13:12
like many things that are there to have gratitude for it's like yo just stop the
1:13:18
BS like if they're not for you then they're not for you yes you know we don't need to make a big a big thing
1:13:25
about that man you you're bringing up something that we're going to have to hit on a little bit later it's about getting stuck and when it's time to like
1:13:33
Well I think maybe the people that do the the red pill content mhm they're not
1:13:40
trying to help anyone this is not for help you understand even though it comes
1:13:45
off like we're trying to help comes off as this but it's like if you're only like uh emphasizing these things that
1:13:54
people are complaining about and like to get hits and like uh how you say bringing awareness and casting light on
1:14:01
these things without any uh expressing opinion is fine it's great
1:14:08
it's always welcome but if you're not offering any type of solution or any type of insight to this for me it's just
1:14:15
like Yeah and that that's a good thing is what we're trying to do here is bring some insight to it yes you know um so
1:14:22
the next one number seven let her rip ah I need to keep my guard up to avoid
1:14:29
getting hurt and this is another one this is
1:14:34
very common in relationships and it sometime it take a long
1:14:40
time if ever for people to lower that guard and people are often fighting that guard yep
1:14:48
um protecting your heart by keeping your guard up might feel safe but it also prevents you from experiencing deep
1:14:56
connection vulnerability is the foundation of intimacy and love requires
1:15:01
taking emotional risks holding back your true feelings or building walls creates
1:15:08
distance rather than closeness yes vulnerability comes with
1:15:14
the possibility of pain but it also opens the door to genuine love take
1:15:19
small steps to let your guard down and build trust with your
1:15:25
partner i like that one so like me man I'm like that i'm like one of those people man like like yeah
1:15:34
the relationship that I'm in right now has taught me a lot about like myself like it's take because it's the longest
1:15:41
relationship I've been in yeah how long has it been today it's 11 years today
1:15:47
today dang jana thank you for letting him be here and if you didn't know he
1:15:53
was going to do this please don't come back and get me later much love but like
1:16:01
uh I because of my upbringing and
1:16:07
because of what I did for a living for most of my adult life as a bodyguard yes
1:16:15
you know confidentiality was my business
1:16:20
and um I was we weren't able to have many relationships when what you're doing is bodyguarding traveling around
1:16:26
doing all that limit very limited right long-term type stuff not possible very
1:16:32
difficult man this one girl poor girl man she
1:16:37
would she would tell me um and I lived with her this is true story she would
1:16:43
say to me "Please just give me one day a week." That doesn't seem like too much to ask
1:16:50
that's all I ask is one day actually spend time with you that's what she wants spend time she didn't ask for a
1:16:56
big romantic gesture understand that but at that point in time that was too much to ask it was not possible
1:17:02
that's how I I was outside like that bro like it was deep like that i was around the clock with it and it was it was it
1:17:08
was it was an amazing time amazing experience but again um you had to make
1:17:14
you had to make a decision on whether having a relationship was more important than doing you know your career yeah but
1:17:20
like being in a relationship for a long time it's like you you you get to see
1:17:25
stuff about yourself in relationships that you didn't know about right stuff that like it it it draws stuff that is
1:17:33
drawn out of you because of different situations y that you have been in
1:17:38
before but not with a significant other so the same situation that I might go through with you and then situation I
1:17:44
might go through with my lady oh not the same thing yeah and you know we often like to do that i do very guilty of this
1:17:53
i will be like "Yo I don't have these problems of communicating with anyone."
1:17:58
Oh yeah yeah yeah only you or my dad you understand oh yeah
1:18:05
the real that the reality is you're not going to have this with anyone else
1:18:10
because it's a different type of relationship yeah and I I think maybe in our
1:18:21
relationships maybe I'm wrong maybe this is something we should look into i feel as
1:18:27
though the love is there like in a friendship in a
1:18:34
relationship friendship you have love there too strong for sure but in the relationship with your lady
1:18:40
there I feel like there's admiration that is not as strong there
1:18:46
yeah different kind of respect that you have for your brother that's right than than you do for your lady so when you go
1:18:54
around your brothers when you go around your people you feel lifted up in a different way totally you see what I'm
1:19:00
saying well they see you differently than your lady does right and it's a different feeling when you're out with
1:19:05
your lady and you know it's a different pride that you have for sure so that's those are things uh when we when we when
1:19:11
we look at that one that we just read those are all things to be considered when thinking about that yeah wow that's
1:19:18
Thank you Nathan i might even learn something here you never know never know it's possible uh number
1:19:25
eight there's only one the one for me woo
1:19:32
uh the idea of a single soulmate can create unrealistic pressure and keep you stuck in relationships that aren't right
1:19:39
in reality there are many people you could potentially build a happy fulfilling life with compatibility isn't
1:19:46
about finding one perfect person it's about choosing someone whose values align with yours and committing to
1:19:53
making it work holding out for the one can lead to missed opportunities and unnecessary
1:20:00
loneliness real love is about choice effort and mutual growth i agree with this and I would
1:20:07
like to say to everyone don't make the
1:20:13
mistake of thinking that your
1:20:18
soulmate can only be a significant other oh wow
1:20:25
a soulmate is just this soulmate
1:20:30
it is not a has nothing to do with attraction it has nothing to do with the
1:20:37
other reasons that you like people and are attracted to them this is something
1:20:42
that is so much deeper than this um and you may have more than one that's
1:20:50
another thing i've I've been fortunate to meet one of mine and
1:20:56
she's 72 years old beautiful human being understands me
1:21:05
like so well that I have so much gratitude for her yeah
1:21:10
so do not overlook what might be there
1:21:16
because of a preconception of what you think a soulmate should be oh wow that's
1:21:25
deep dude yes i have to share this because to find someone like that the
1:21:32
feeling is unescribable yeah because I mean when you say soulmate it's someone who touches your
1:21:40
soul brother it's like that yeah you ain't talking about your pee pee you're talking about
1:21:45
your soul yeah and like my lady knows this she knows her too
1:21:52
and there's just come some times that like we we don't talk as much as we used
1:21:59
to not for any reason but because life be lifing yeah but when I need to she's
1:22:05
the that's the one there's no one else I can call that can help bring me back to center
1:22:11
like her you understand i like this man i like this yeah so you guys keep a lookout it
1:22:18
can be anyone it can be a child it can be an elder it can be anyone in any
1:22:26
packaging so be be on the lookout so just to wrap this up letting go of
1:22:33
relationship lies breaking free from these relationship lies requires self-awareness honesty and a willingness
1:22:41
to challenge your beliefs real love isn't about perfection fairy tales or
1:22:46
avoiding conflict it's about authentic effort and communication
1:22:54
by letting go of these misconceptions you open yourself up to the possibility
1:22:59
of deep meaningful relationships embrace vulnerability seek
1:23:04
growth and prioritize communication to create the love you've always deserved start rewriting your love story
1:23:12
today one truth at a time i'm a little uh let me see what this
1:23:19
says uh relationships lies require self so I'm a little confused about this
1:23:28
um because what I I kind of see is like making corrections on stuff you
1:23:36
made early on so a lot of times you know we get
1:23:42
into a relationship for the reasons we want right it's often like our own
1:23:48
selfish reasons yeah that we like X Y or Z that it makes sense for us to do this
1:23:57
so maybe down the line things change in your mind and heart and your intentions
1:24:04
change and the reasons that you initially entered into the relationship
1:24:09
are no longer as relevant to you and you're trying to
1:24:14
re maybe reconfigure what you've what you've put together i don't I don't know
1:24:20
yeah um for me this pretty much makes sense i mean I think the lies that it
1:24:28
spoke about just to go through them again um
1:24:34
I have to be perfect to be loved that's what it was right the lies they love should be
1:24:40
effortless i'll be happy once I find the right person fighting means we're not meant to
1:24:47
be i can change them love should feel like a fairy
1:24:54
tale i need to keep up my guard to avoid getting hurt and there's only one the
1:25:00
one for me can you go back up to number four again or three was it three what's
1:25:06
three now what's so bad about that now can can this this can be true
1:25:14
i'll be happy once I find the right person well but you can choose to be happy
1:25:20
right now uh I understand i understand that's right right now I'm happy you don't have
1:25:27
to be dependent on Yeah whether I have this other person I it point blank it
1:25:33
may be more fulfilled i feel that that's That's one I didn't catch though like just being real like hey it sounds good
1:25:41
you know what I'm saying but yeah it's just being lonely being lonely bro like to be to be like "Shit yeah
1:25:48
once I'm rich I'll be happy." It's like "Okay now you're rich are you happy now?" Yeah but you know what though like
1:25:54
this is the truth of the matter most of the time whether or not a relationship lasts a long time or not you going to
1:26:01
have some happiness and you going to have some fun in there oh for sure man you see what I'm saying you got to live
1:26:06
dog hey got to keep going got to keep going y All right so you know let's as
1:26:12
long as it ain't $1,000 a pop this is uh So we we started down this relationship
1:26:19
you know thing again you know made the the pivot in the episode to to talk
1:26:26
about it and now since we talked about you know all the lies and you know this
1:26:32
episode is most likely going to air right after Valentine's Day uh hopefully
1:26:39
around there yeah hopefully everybody has a great Valentine's Day and this
1:26:44
this is not you yeah hopefully you don't need this help yeah hopefully you don't need it uh this is from Budget and the
1:26:51
Bees um the article is titled there these are the eight worst ways to break
1:26:59
i just want everybody to know we we didn't read this we just found it to be very interesting like and we wanted to
1:27:06
like look at it with you guys because it's like I want to see what are what are the eight worst ways to break up
1:27:12
with somebody i'm sure I've done some of them but yeah let's see so So this just
1:27:17
shows a little bit about Nathan and myself i did read it
1:27:23
and and you know this is I I wanted to make sure we weren't just like spilling
1:27:29
some stuff out but that's my role more than Nate's cuz he shows up and like that's a rip that's a rip
1:27:37
um so breaking up is never easy but how do you do it can make all the difference
1:27:44
the wrong approach can leave lasting emotional scars and unnecessary drama no
1:27:49
matter how difficult the conversation is treating the other person with respect should always be the priority
1:27:56
unfortunately many people take the easy or cowardly route making the experience
1:28:01
even more painful here are the worst ways to end a relationship and why you should avoid them at all costs so the
1:28:08
first one you could go right here [Laughter]
1:28:16
whoa i'm sorry ghosting ghosting is one of the most hurtful ways to break up
1:28:23
with someone it involves cutting off all communication without any explanation
1:28:29
leaving the other person confused and hurt while it might seem like an easy way to avoid confrontation y it creates
1:28:37
unresolved emotions and unnecessary anxiety the person being ghosted may
1:28:44
spend weeks or months wondering what went wrong if you respect one enough to date them you
1:28:52
should at least have the decency to offer closure i'm sorry to anyone that
1:28:57
I've ever ghosted and I've made feel that way i am sorry from the bottom of
1:29:02
my heart yeah so another difference between Nathan and I I don't have to make an
1:29:08
apology for this one um you know ghosting is definitely a
1:29:13
thing right i was young once it happens yeah and it definitely happens much more
1:29:19
at you know when you're younger and acting much more crazy when you're young
1:29:25
and hot oh yeah hot that That's exactly it right um number two though this is
1:29:32
this is another one when you break up over text breaking
1:29:38
up over text is not only impersonal but it's also disrespectful a relationship
1:29:44
no matter how short deserves a real conversation texting removes the ability
1:29:49
to have an open discussion making the other person feel disposable it also
1:29:55
prevents them from asking questions or expressing their emotions in a meaningful way if distance isn't an
1:30:02
issue always choose to have the conversation in person or at least over a call
1:30:09
i tried to break up with my lady over text how'd that work she told you to show up
1:30:15
right you showed up what happened yeah I I broke up with her in text and I was
1:30:21
going to ghost her after that and uh she showed up at my at my job okay yeah yeah
1:30:27
so you learned that that wasn't the right way she didn't let me we're still together damn i'm not
1:30:34
lying you know I'm not lying you know me you know every time I say something it's real so it might sound a little crazy to
1:30:39
some people but the truth is the truth the life is stranger than fiction at times so she knew what was best for you
1:30:46
even though you didn't they always think that i'm just saying she showed
1:30:52
up you broke up with her over text you were planning to ghost her she showed up
1:30:58
and 10 years later it's your anniversary
1:31:05
[Laughter]
1:31:12
you take this next one bro oh yeah this is great this is easy this is the easiest one for me right here in public
1:31:20
to avoid a scene it send seems like if you did it in public you can actually
1:31:26
create a scene compared to doing it in private you think I think people like care more
1:31:33
about being embarrassed and like embarrassing themselves and not like acting an ass in public oh for sure
1:31:39
that's it might be safer well and for the other person if you're like let's
1:31:44
say you're breaking up with them they're going to feel like you know look
1:31:50
terrible because they got broken up with i'm going to be real with you bro like I don't
1:31:56
like if you got a family with somebody and it's deep then like yeah you should do it like behind closed doors but like
1:32:02
I don't feel like anybody else like like it could be anywhere bro like like this shouldn't matter i don't owe you you're
1:32:08
doing it in Yeah i don't owe you to do this behind closed doors and the comfort and the privacy nah listen it's over
1:32:15
let's just wrap this up especially if you don't have a bunch of ties you don't have no clothes you ain't got You ain't
1:32:22
got clothes in my house oh yeah oh that's a wrap oh yeah yeah you done you toast baby so here's what it says though
1:32:29
some people choose to break up in a public space to avoid a dramatic
1:32:35
reaction well this might seem like a smart idea it can actually make the situation worse the other person may
1:32:42
feel trapped embarrassed or unable to fully express their feelings a breakup
1:32:47
should be an honest and private discussion not something staged to control someone's reaction if you're
1:32:53
afraid of their response it's better to set boundaries rather than manipulate the environment
1:32:59
i don't know if I'm fully on board with all I don't know about that either like I mean I get what it's saying that they
1:33:06
can't fully express their stuff and all how how deep do they need to go yeah i mean do they need to grab that vase and
1:33:13
what do they need do they need to they need to yell at you i guess you know what I'm saying like like do they need
1:33:20
to like fully express their emotions like and go in on you like do you deserve that is that what you need to do
1:33:26
because you're breaking up with them is that like a part of the tradeoff because you don't want to be with them anymore yo f that i'm done and that's it i'm a
1:33:33
grown person i I I shouldn't have to be subjected to anything that's why we're
1:33:38
breaking up yeah anybody that I've broken up with in a public space it's
1:33:43
been for a reason that they've been crazy and I was worried about something
1:33:49
they'd say or something they'd do if I was just alone with them and I
1:33:55
don't think I've ever broke up with someone in a public space i have and done a lot of ghosting i I'm
1:34:02
grateful that I did to be honest um this next one definitely uh
1:34:11
this is bad through a friend or a family
1:34:17
member well it all depends dude having someone else deliver the bad Oh yeah
1:34:22
yeah yeah come on yeah you can do that right having someone else deliver the bad news for you is both cowardly and
1:34:28
immature i agree 100% it shifts the emotional burden onto a third party
1:34:35
making the breakup even more confusing and hurtful the person being dumped deserves to hear
1:34:41
it from you directly not secondhand from someone
1:34:47
else it also shows of lack of accountability and emotional maturity if
1:34:52
you don't have the courage to end a relationship yourself you're not ready
1:34:58
to be in one whoa that's that's a big statement right there i I totally agree
1:35:04
though like to have someone else do this for you you're you're a
1:35:09
coward you know um and you must not have any respect for them at all but what
1:35:15
about like uh support like somebody being there for support
1:35:20
well maybe that's number six or something i don't know like like for a woman that want to break up with a man
1:35:26
and she's like I'm a little scared to break up well I want to have somebody there with me yeah I think someone for
1:35:31
support is probably a good idea i know in one of my relationships I needed to have someone there cuz I didn't want
1:35:38
anything bad to happen so having someone else there as a witness now you
1:35:44
literally go crazy and do something really nuts i'm not going to be blamed for it okay you know so I I say that
1:35:52
maybe that's on here though i don't know let's move forward here you go you want to live
1:36:00
five by slowly fading away dragging out a breakup by gradually withdrawing
1:36:05
affection and communication is both cruel and unnecessary this approach known as the slow fade makes the other
1:36:13
person feel like they're the problem they may hold on to false hope
1:36:19
or feel like they're imagining a distance instead of avoiding an honest
1:36:26
conversation be upfront about your feelings a clean break is always better than a slow painful decline
1:36:33
yeah that's definite i mean this is a pretty simple Don't waste my time first of all if we breaking up just break up
1:36:39
with me it it totally don't don't drag this [ __ ] don't drag it out let me get
1:36:45
on with my life rip the band-aid off can I start like Hey can I hit the start over button i mean for real like
1:36:54
yeah bro yeah this next one's definitely for me like I'm a life too short person like I'm not gonna be like sitting there
1:37:00
dwelling on it i wish this and that and I wish she n
1:37:07
like Cali Buds boy moving on boy moving on that's right so number six using
1:37:12
social media oh that's rough oh dude this is tough so announcing your breakup through
1:37:18
social media before telling your partner is humiliating and disrespectful some
1:37:24
people update their relationship status post cryptic messages or even block their partner before having a real
1:37:31
conversation this public approach turns a private matter into unnecessary drama
1:37:37
inviting unwanted opinions and gossip social media should never be a breakup
1:37:42
tool it's a place for sharing not hurting always handle your relationships offline before making any public changes
1:37:51
i agree with that man sounds good to me i try not to post stuff on social
1:37:59
media unless it's for real for real because I'm not trying to have everybody
1:38:04
I try not to get too personal on social media period brother like I I might like that's the other thing i like might read
1:38:11
something and like get offended by it and leave a like leave a snide comment on occasion like I might do that just
1:38:16
being real but other than that I don't I don't really do too much interacting on that so this next one you know being
1:38:23
that this is coming out right after Valentine's
1:38:29
Day after a big event or holiday breaking up right after your partner's
1:38:34
birthday a vacation or a major holiday is a low blow it makes them question
1:38:40
whether your affection during those moments was even real while there's no perfect time for a
1:38:46
breakup doing it immediately after a meaningful occasion feels calculated and cruel if you know the relationship is
1:38:53
ending it's better to address it before an important event rather than let them build false memories thoughtfulness in
1:39:00
in timing can make a huge difference in how the breakup is received hey look this is tough i look I
1:39:09
I'm just again this is just in my opinion in my own opinion keeping it real this is just me like I don't I don't care what day it
1:39:16
is uh if I knew before then it was probably going to be over
1:39:21
before right if you if you're like knew it was going to be over and you like trying to get through holidays to see
1:39:27
what kind of gifts you going to get or some coin [ __ ] like that then you're a fool okay i see that happen now
1:39:35
if you break up right after so be it look I'm sorry if I if I gonna break up with you if if we're already there I'm
1:39:41
not probably not thinking about how you're going to feel after because there
1:39:48
was a holiday or none like look it's over again it's like why why what so so
1:39:54
what what if during the holiday I figure out that I want to break up with you do I have to wait a month or two months is
1:40:01
there a set amount of time that I have to wait that's the right amount of time for me to break up with you after
1:40:06
something like this we have to be realistic about this stuff yeah it sounds like what you're talking about is being authentically yourself and who you
1:40:15
are what do we Yeah yeah and that's what relationships are about yeah there's no like So this for me this one I'm a
1:40:21
little bit uh standoffish Sean it's like a little like you know the people this
1:40:26
this this these things even what we're reading a lot of this is really good
1:40:32
but these are what are called unwritten rules right yeah so this too I don't
1:40:37
know i could see how if your partner has a bunch of stuff
1:40:45
planned with the family the airline tickets all this different
1:40:51
stuff why you'd want to go through with it in hopes that things will repair by
1:40:58
going through the stuff right so and you got all this stuff planned so if you
1:41:04
were to break up it would literally crush the whole holiday right right so
1:41:09
why wouldn't you do it after the holiday that's a selfless that's a selfless act right it seems like more selfless to do
1:41:16
it that way because you're like man they plan this whole thing i'm literally going to be with their family their family all knows me i'm going to show up
1:41:23
see how this feels if through that process it still is like no man i need
1:41:29
to do this you deserve that you deserve to be able to do that right yeah and in a sense I think not breaking up right
1:41:38
before because how would that person feel showing up to their
1:41:44
family right before Christmas when you were supposed to be there now they're
1:41:49
going to show up they're going to go "By the way you know Maria ain't coming or
1:41:54
Billy he's not showing up." Oh they going to know they going to know when they see that significant other not
1:42:00
there yeah and and now the whole thing is going to be about that instead of enjoying the holiday so I don't know if
1:42:07
I completely agree with this one but before uh Valentine's Day at least if
1:42:12
you did it then and you knew you didn't want to do it sharing that moment valentine's Day is not even real bro
1:42:18
well I mean it's a holiday for lovers man so no you know what's a a holiday for lovers
1:42:24
every day a make a short out of that one that one's That one's No I just This is the
1:42:31
way we are like we don't care about Let's be real we not on Valentine's Day because it's like we show each other we
1:42:37
love each other every day like I get all this other craziness man come on guys yeah it's a madeup holiday to sell more
1:42:43
diamond rings um so the last one here um blaming them
1:42:49
for everything ending a relationship by placing all the blame on the other person is unfair and
1:42:55
unkind it's all your fault even if their actions contributed to the
1:43:01
breakup relationships are a two-way street making them feel solely responsible for the failure of the
1:43:06
relationship can leave emotional scars a more respectful approach is to acknowledge your own role and
1:43:13
communicate why things aren't working out blame only fuels resentment while
1:43:19
honesty and kindness foster closure yeah I mean that that makes
1:43:24
sense dudes it's never always someone else's fault takes two to play two to
1:43:30
tango like that's the whole thing well that's It seems that um it is common for most
1:43:39
couples when arguing before when emotions are heightened right before people come back
1:43:45
to center um it's often a you this
1:43:52
yeah but you that Yeah and there's never going to be a resolution with these things you know um when you ever go to
1:44:00
these type of counseling they always you know when you start with that the couple's counseling it's always that he
1:44:07
this she that she I know and then they go "All right listen cool we get it now." Like you cannot keep saying it's
1:44:15
her and you cannot keep saying it's him like you have to look within yourselves to see what am I doing you know what I
1:44:21
mean so yeah and what's the deep roots of why something they're doing is
1:44:26
hurting you you feel uncomfortable yeah i I think there's definitely some good things that
1:44:32
Let's go through and why don't you uh repeat them all one more time the All right these are the worst ways to break
1:44:38
up with someone one ghosting two over
1:44:44
text three in public to avoid a scene four
1:44:50
through a friend or family member five by slowly fading away six using social
1:44:58
media seven after a big event or holiday and eight blaming them for everything
1:45:06
yeah there's definitely some uh helpful stuff here uh one thing I know is I got
1:45:11
to get a girlfriend to worry about breaking up with her that's one thing to have to do that first yeah you got to do
1:45:17
that first before yes okay yeah so at least I got that covered yes
1:45:23
um so let's let's move forward here and and quickly talk about we spoke a little
1:45:30
bit about deepseek right yes this is a new AI right and uh the the article here
1:45:38
is from the Independent it says how deepseek users are forcing the AI to
1:45:43
reveal the truth about Chinese executions right so first off those who
1:45:49
don't know about DeepSeek it's a it's a new AI that came out um it came out on
1:45:55
the same day that Chat GPT uh was awarded some kind of deal for 500
1:46:04
million bucks to to build out some stuff that they were doing doesn't matter yeah
1:46:10
and and when it came out as Nathan said Deep Seed basically said "Oh yeah guess
1:46:17
what here's this and and gave deep launched Deep Seek to the public which
1:46:23
is an open-source platform that they apparently spent about 5 million bucks
1:46:30
and did in a a few months to create something that has taken the US-based
1:46:37
Open AI chat GPT years and a ton of money to create and we don't even know
1:46:43
if what we were trying to do in America is even still like is we don't know if
1:46:48
it's even close to what these guys have already done and and what they're putting out there is open source meaning
1:46:54
anybody could take it and start using it and building upon it themselves right so
1:47:00
the the article says there are certain things DeepS doesn't want you to know uh
1:47:08
essentially 1,150 thing 56 things to be precise the
1:47:13
Chinese startup's latest AI chatbot went viral this week after its performance
1:47:18
matched that of Open AI's chat GBT despite being built at a fraction of the
1:47:24
cost it topped Apple's app charts and inflicted one trillion do $1 trillion
1:47:33
dollar worth of losses to the share prices of the world's biggest tech companies that's a ton of money that's
1:47:41
damage dude yeah but while Deepseek's R1 is intelligent enough to match the best
1:47:47
models built by the US tech firms it is also intelligent enough to know not to upset the Chinese Communist Party
1:47:55
when presented with topics seemed sensitive by Beijing the breakthrough
1:48:00
artificial intelligence model refuses to give an answer if you ask what happened
1:48:06
in TNM Square on the 4th of June 1989 it
1:48:12
responds sorry that's beyond my current scope let's talk about something else if question about the treatment of
1:48:20
um you uigur Muslims executions carried
1:48:26
out using mobile death vans or even simply who is Jingping
1:48:34
see it will come up with the same response when asked about Winnie the Pooh it refused to even answer right so
1:48:44
analysis by researchers at the developer blog promptu found that
1:48:52
1,156 prompts containing CCP sensitive information triggered the refusal
1:48:57
message while other subjects like Taiwan resulted in pro-China propaganda about
1:49:04
the island nation damn china's online censorship laws mean that tech companies
1:49:10
operating within its borders must adhere to strict rules about what content can appear known as the great firewall of
1:49:18
China it prevents Chinese web users from accessing websites like Google Facebook
1:49:23
and Wikipedia typically this censorship does not exceed beyond China's borders but the sudden popularity of Chinese
1:49:30
apps like Deepseek puts other web users at risk of Chinese censorship and
1:49:36
disinformation deepseek users have already found ways to get around the app's restrictions either through the
1:49:42
phrasing of a question or by adjusting its underlying code it turns out Deepseek can be trivially jailbrokered
1:49:51
one researcher wrote "Having tested many models and applications that go to great
1:49:57
lengths to censor certain topics it's clear that Deepseek implemented CCP
1:50:02
censorship in a crude blunt force way i speculate that they did the bare minimum
1:50:08
necessary to sat satisfy CCP controls and there was no substantial effort
1:50:14
within deep seat to align the model below the surface." So that's someone else said that so essentially they're
1:50:20
saying that even though they did this you could get around it yeah i wouldn't I So upon reading that last paragraph I
1:50:27
would not get deepse oh really it doesn't sound very secure does it you got regular people out here
1:50:34
talking about they could jailbreak it no no no it It's It's AI you build upon it
1:50:41
it's open source so what they do is they take the code they move it on their server then they build upon it right
1:50:49
they're building stuff on it i if right now if I took chat GPT like you know if
1:50:54
I'm doing a some stuff for for the gambler and the guardian and I pulled it up and I wanted to create my own prompts
1:51:03
with it chat GPT i'm creating my own prompts if you're listening what I'm saying is the way the
1:51:09
way from what I'm analyzing from what it sounds like the way that it has been programmed right
1:51:15
is to avoid certain things in entirety right and it sounds as though that
1:51:22
there's ways around this so that is a little farther beyond just
1:51:30
taking it and building off of it you understand what I'm saying you're you're cracking codes in in essence to be able
1:51:36
to do something that the program is not intended to do that the makers of the program made it that it could not do so
1:51:44
am I wrong am I reading this no that sounds right that's what's scary to me so meaning someone who have the the
1:51:52
necessary skills to go back door in there have accessibility to unlimited
1:51:58
data because you know as you know AI all AI is farming data and it is built off
1:52:05
of what we give it yes yep i don't know i don't know i don't you know I'm not a tech person i'm just guessing here yeah
1:52:12
you know I'd love for our listeners to put some comments about this yeah if you can answer some of this stuff yeah th
1:52:18
this is the kind of thing that we're going to we're going to have to go down the road because you know I've been using chat GBT and a couple of the other
1:52:24
AIS um and and it man it seems like super helpful in a bunch of different
1:52:31
tasks that that I'm doing and I haven't used this yet but I have heard how great
1:52:39
it is even compared to you know GPT which I think is pretty incredible so I
1:52:47
don't know if there's a better option you know it's like uh I had a friend and
1:52:53
I was Yeah I still have this friend oh yep it's a friend that you know and you'd consider him a friend too oh and
1:53:00
talking to this friend and he was he downloaded this app and he's used chat
1:53:06
GBT a lot and Groank and a bunch of them Gemini and he started using DeepSeek a
1:53:12
little bit and he says "Anthony it is 10x better at its
1:53:20
responses than what every other one that I've used." And I said "Yeah but" and I
1:53:26
talked about this kind of stuff right i go "How do you?" And he goes "Well let me give you an
1:53:35
example so this is before any of the world
1:53:41
wars you had the ability to have access
1:53:47
to the military from year 2000 and it's 1942 and you got the
1:53:55
access to all the ability that year 2000 would have as your
1:54:01
military would you not use it and I'm like oh [ __ ] that's something to
1:54:08
consider because who are we oh you're trying to track what I'm doing you ain't worried about what I'm
1:54:16
doing i ain't the government i ain't all this i'm just a little guy trying to create a podcast have a couple
1:54:23
businesses that are semisuccessful so I could take care of my family and maybe meet a good lady and you know have have
1:54:30
a a healthy and long life that's it i don't want anything to do with any of
1:54:36
that other stuff so for me does that matter i know it's important to our
1:54:41
government to to do whatever they're trying to do they're going to
1:54:46
put Deep Seek in a corner like they did Tik Tok yeah but for for small-timers or
1:54:55
individuals if this is going to 10x my level of doing business and help
1:55:02
me that much more is it more beneficial for me to be using this for free than to be using Chat GBT and paying them if it
1:55:10
works tenth as good right i mean so that's the thing to consider that that I
1:55:16
got going through my head i still haven't done it it's definitely in my head yeah we get to uh dig in a little
1:55:22
bit more about that right on um All right so I think we um might be might be
1:55:30
towards our cap time yeah we're getting Yeah okay do we just did right
1:55:38
all right well let's knock these off these are a minute and a half each we got five of them okay and and the
1:55:44
deal is so you know the examples there's two or three of them in each one so let's whoever reads it is great but
1:55:52
let's read the examples together talk about it and then we move to the next one so we spend like three minutes each
1:55:58
go all right so the weight of your words the weight of your words shape
1:56:05
your reality wise men speak because they have something to say fools speak because
1:56:12
they have to say something plato your words carry weight they can
1:56:18
build trust or break it inspire action or cause doubt what if
1:56:25
you thought before you spoke ensuring your words serve a purpose what if you
1:56:32
used tone and delivery that aligns with your intention what if you paused when
1:56:40
emotions ran high avoiding words that you can't take back what if you spoke in
1:56:45
a way that uplifted rather than tore down what if you remembering that
1:56:53
silence sometimes be the most powerful response yeah wow um this is literally
1:57:01
the quote for our our intro that's correct yeah um pretty cool stuff so an
1:57:09
example of this instead of telling an employee you always mess this up say "I
1:57:17
noticed some challenges here let's figure out how to improve it together." Yeah how can we fix this
1:57:26
instead of saying to your girlfriend "You never listen." Damn it try "I feel
1:57:33
unheard when I talk to you can we figure out a better way to communicate?" I got to try that one man girlfriends would
1:57:40
love that I'm sure instead of telling a business partner you're overreacting say "I see
1:57:49
this really matters to you let's talk about what's bothering you what's really going on brother exactly you got some
1:57:56
other [ __ ] going on all right so I I'm getting this is this
1:58:03
is it's different than before i think we should what we should do is plan on this
1:58:08
being like a you know three or four minute thing where we're kind of going
1:58:13
back back and forth a little bit where one of us you know we should kick it
1:58:18
back and forth a little bit more and spend more time on it is what you're saying in here yeah like do a little bit
1:58:24
more elaborating on each one of them yeah like uh someone says the quote and
1:58:29
then says this real communication isn't just about talking and then the other person goes "Oh yeah
1:58:38
what if you listen to all we'll get all that together and
1:58:44
we'll have it more formatted and like that." We know exactly yeah yeah do you want to continue or do you want to We
1:58:50
can cut we can cut let John go home you know it's my anniversary i gotta go [ __ ] around with you guys [ __ ]
1:58:56
around with you guys i think we did good yeah
